So just a little backround info:
I'm a 19 yr old college student. I'm middle eastern, Muslim raised so this is gonna be the prettiest Outting.
Anyways. So I haven't come out yet because growing up i always thought I was just bi, but being around my gay friends, its opened my eyes, (especially my friends that have been together for 5 years) I see what they have, and i know i could live my life with a women and be happy but i want more and deserve more. So since I've been enlightened i know what would truly make me happy and i'm going to pursue it. I'm not scared of coming out, I'm self confident, intelligent, and a great person and if people don't wanna except the fact that i'd like to live my life with a man then they can go and fuck themselves. =)
So I just kinda said all that because i wanted to make it clear, the coming out doesn't give me fears or anxieties, more like anxiousness and happiness.
My problems lie in what order to tell people and how to tell them... For example should i walk up to my friend and be like, " hey buddy i'm gay " i know he wont care but idk how to say it.
I figured id ask, maybe for some tips and hints. People have gone thru this so why not learn from there mistakes. That just seemed like the most logical thing to do.
I'm a 19 yr old college student. I'm middle eastern, Muslim raised so this is gonna be the prettiest Outting.
Anyways. So I haven't come out yet because growing up i always thought I was just bi, but being around my gay friends, its opened my eyes, (especially my friends that have been together for 5 years) I see what they have, and i know i could live my life with a women and be happy but i want more and deserve more. So since I've been enlightened i know what would truly make me happy and i'm going to pursue it. I'm not scared of coming out, I'm self confident, intelligent, and a great person and if people don't wanna except the fact that i'd like to live my life with a man then they can go and fuck themselves. =)
So I just kinda said all that because i wanted to make it clear, the coming out doesn't give me fears or anxieties, more like anxiousness and happiness.
My problems lie in what order to tell people and how to tell them... For example should i walk up to my friend and be like, " hey buddy i'm gay " i know he wont care but idk how to say it.
I figured id ask, maybe for some tips and hints. People have gone thru this so why not learn from there mistakes. That just seemed like the most logical thing to do.