Deep Throating

So much is discussed about the whole Deep Throat thing... A few thoughts.
The whole gag thing has to do with a specific length of the cock. As long as it either doesn't reach the gag spot, or it goes past it, gaging isn't a problem. The thickness is another thing, but not in terms of gagging so much as, will it fit. Then there's the curve factor. If it has a big upward curve, then you have to go at it in a 69 position (more or less). I mean... the railroad tracks have to curve the same way as the tunnel to get the train through. Of course having said all of this, I'm left with an issue. I like the gagging and slurpping and gurggeling noises. I'm a good deep throater, so sometimes I have to fake not being because some guys really like the fact that they are too much to handle and want to have that force aspect. Fucking a mouth makes the fucker the top. sounds pretty basic, but you'd be surprised at how many times I feel like I'm being very specific about being an oral bottom and then come to find out that the guy thinks that means I want to get my dick sucked... ?
I debate mentioning this.. of what the hell. The guy on the internet (and on this site specifically) called Fleshlight mouth... A most talented force of nature. He can swallow the biggest cocks in the world over and over again to the hilt... That's great, but I find that as I'm watching his videos, I become bored. Where's the sound, where's the challenge, where's the interest? Don't get me wrong, I'm sure if you have a big dick it feels great. I just think it makes for a really boring viewing experience. There's something so easy about it for him that there's something missing... call it the worship factor. I prefer watching the guys giving it their all and gagging and slobbering and begging with tears streaming down their cheeks. But... maybe that's just me. To each their own

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interesting post. you raise some good points.

I think in the same way that there are "power bottoms" in anal sex who really are the dominant force, even though they are being penetrated, there are "power bottoms" in oral sex too, and Fleshlight may in fact be one. (I don't know him, but admire his skillz and commitment to his activities!)

The way you describe Fleshlight's videos, it sounds as if he is really focused on his own achievements, not the pleasure of the penetrator. Fleshlight definitely doesn't strike me as being subservient or degraded or under the influence of his partners, and that's certainly where he and I differ. I'm proud of my deepthroat skills--I regularly hear comments like, "oh my god, that's never happened" or "how did you do that" or "that was the most amazing head I've ever had", but the irony is that the pleasure for me lies entirely in my absorbption into the masculinity of my partner.

When I am giving head, I cease to exist; I am simply an extension of the other person's pleasure. I am certainly not into BDSM, but I do enjoy the feeling of subservience that I derive from pleasuring my partner... and that does include making him feel superior, and the challenge, the interest, is all part of that. So are the tears, the wretching, and the near asphyxiation.

If anyone is in New York and wants to give it a try, I'd love to meet you.

-Jason
 

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