Dominance

What's the deal with guys being overly aggressive in bed? Don't get me wrong, I LOVE being thrown around like a fuckdoll and pounded hard until my knees are weak, but this one guy that I sleep with sometimes... He surprises me because he doesn't seem like the type that's into face-slapping and choking. He stops when I tell him to, but the first time, he just slapped my face out of the blue. It wasn't excruciating, but I was shocked and a little offended. I kept having sex with him because I wanted to cum, but it was strange. My opinion is that he does this because his dick is not terribly large and he seems to be the mild-mannered guy in his group of friends, so I guess he feels the need to assert dominance of some form in some area of his life. He asked me if I liked it, and I said "No, actually," so he hasn't done it again. I guess everyone has their own little quirks. If he does it again, I'm slapping him back... harder.

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...with a 2x4 :D

Being dominant in bed is one thing, being violent (by slapping someone out of the blue) is another...

Although I do sometimes have a mild choking fantasy (not one where the woman's eyes roll back to the back of her head) I doubt I could really do it even if she asked me to.

Guess that comes with being big (not a cock size reference) and having strong protective instincts towards women.

Or maybe I haven't found a girl that's into it, who knows...
 
Very fucking odd... even if I were into that sort of thing, seems like the kind of thing you'd run by a girl before just diving into. Don't get me wrong, I'm more dominant myself in bed but not where the aim to actually injure the girl. In my experience at least, women seem to act a little more submissive around larger guys so maybe it is out of his lack of confidence? Fuck knows, but he sounds like a bit of a douche, frankly.
 
Sounds like he misjudged, for some it's a turn on...people sometimes assume the other person is into...but u set him straight- u guys should be good.
 
if the mood has been building to a certain pitch... intensity doubling on itself.. then a smack across the face wouldn't phase me.

in any other situation. yeah.. is not gonna end in post-orgasmic consumption of indian takeaway.

not sure cock size has much to do with his behavior. cuz dominance doesn't live in a man's underdrawers. he seems a bit clumsy in his lovedown. not knowing how to make the jump from a vigorous fuck session to a scene playing with boundaries.
 

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