I'm a fan of DD, enjoy his writing and admire the stance he took to shed light on how the rich and famous litterally get away with rape and murder. But I believe he was a closeted gay man. Like Merv Griffin, Cary Grant, Fred Astaire and many others I think DD hid this aspect of his life. There are countless men, and women, living like this, maybe it's time to shed some light on how common "don't ask, don't tell" is in terms of "straight marriage".