Emotion and attraction

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I am fascinated how the human mind & body develops attraction and desire for other people. It can happen without ever speaking words to a person, yet you want to fuck them in the worst way. Maybe it’s not mysterious haha and it’s just good ol natural horniness lol. I don’t know. I just know that I even met Pet online through a site similar to this. I knew immediately I wanted to be with her sexually and that I wanted to explore. Things turned out well then so maybe we should listen to that little voice.

Who knows? Anyway this is likely simply horny rambling so I’ll leave haha. Bye

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Anyway this is likely simply horny rambling

I feel like this could get added after everything I write on here, in all fairness :joy:

Thanks you for sharing your experience. I’ve read that the most powerful force that shapes human attraction has nothing to do with looks or even the way a person sounds. Allegedly, it’s all about pheromones, or how your natural body chemicals mesh together. I’ve read this repeatedly so I do think it could have some merit.

Basically, my understanding is that if your pheromones aren’t a match, you won’t be either. It sounds like you listened to your gut (wise) and that everything else worked out too when you did meet up :)

I’ve been trying to listen to that little voice more often, and I don’t think I’ve ever regretted it.
 
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@ArtAppreciation Thank you for your thoughtful response. I didn’t think to take my thoughts in this direction, but I agree wholeheartedly in trusting your gut or sixth sense. If you feel like you will like someone you’re probably correct. The inverse is true as well. If you feel unsure or negatively about someone chances are you and they will not get along. Hmmm what if this is cause and effect instead of instinct?
 
Indeed!

If someone knows me well, and tells me “You are going to LOVE him/her”...when I meet that person, I always do.

I can never be sure if it comes down to any one thing. Perhaps it is simply the belief that I’ll get along with, and like someone that I meet (that could be paramount)...

I’m just rambling/musing here :joy:

It appears to me at present that if we hold a belief in our minds about a person before meeting them...and, if that belief is a positive and helpful one, then we can expect the best, most useful outcomes.

On the other hand, let’s suppose someone’s paradigm about people in general is that ‘everyone is always out to get me.’ I would imagine that, regardless of who this person meets (nice or nasty)...the attitude that ‘everyone is bad’ will be reflected instantly upon everybody the belief holder touches. (Just speculating)

So they might have few, if any, positive experiences with other people. It may be that their only interactions are forced ones: family that can’t escape and co-workers etc. Yikes.

I wanted to point that out because you‘re a refreshing comparison to that kind of thinking. I would expect that you will keep meeting new, friendly, and exciting people for the rest of your life :)

Thanks for letting me go on and ....on your blog :blush:
 
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