Fetish or just Preference?

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When does a sexual desire or preference become a fetish? Where is this line and have you crossed it once before? Twice?

I like cunnilingus. No. Let me rephrase. I fucking love eating pussy. I love everything about it. I love the folds of the pussy. The taste. Labias major and minor. How it drenches my beard. How it tastes different at different times of the month. How my tongue reaches that little rough patch on the inside that makes you go crazy.

And the clit. The almighty clit. I would marry the clit if I could. Flicking her with my tongue. Light suckling, then light flicks, sucking, full lipped sucking....then back to those majors and minors. The different reactions depending on angle, firmness of the suction, placement of suction etc. All of these are reasons I cherish the clit and the rest of the pussy, but the biggest reason is simple:

You reaction. The reaction to pussy eating is different than the reaction to good fucking. When eating I can really focus on your body’s responses and learn it’s language. When I’m fucking it’s hard to block out my own body talking it’s head off lol. I love the quivering, the moaning, the begging, the mewing and screaming. All of it.

I don’t think I could be in a long term relationship without getting regular plates of pussy. I need a regular dinner full. There is no other option for me. It’s just too good and too much fun not to eat as often as possible.

Anyway at what point does sexual desire and preference become fetish? Have you crossed this bridge once? Or maybe more?

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Great topic!

personally I’m inclined to say that sexual preference is akin to that which we require to feel satisfied, while a fetish fulfills a much deeper desire. Sexually that means that which I prefer is enough to sustain my need on a regular basis, but those times my desire is fulfilled will be remembered more fondly and need not be acted upon regularly... it needs to be done right or not done at all.

both are very personal and should need no apology, but for that deeper desire being fulfilled one will generally find themselves in a much smaller group of likeminded individuals to play with.

I didn’t even know my own fetish before it revealed itself quite unexpectedly... in contrast to yours... my preference is to flick my tongue on the bottom of black man’s crown before putting his dick head in my mouth then suck as much of it as I can, feel it grow in my wet mouth as he moans and puts his hands on the back of head to push the rest deep down my throat, every time I catch my breath when he pulls out makes me want him to shove it all in more and more till he gets rock hard and ruthlessly dicks me down... making sure I feel every single inch... preferring to be plowed harder the larger the size is to be satisfied... I just love to take a real good fuckdown from a black guy like myself.

Hearing i take dick harder than their girlfriend, however gratifying, does not compare to my fetish. The very first time i consciously experienced it, I knew that was a desire so deep it had to happen for me to even know it existed, but it wasn’t a thing that could be achieved with everyone... and that’s really okay. As much as i love to feel a big black monster Dick bust his nutt, taking that big black monster Dick in front of a white guy saying to ram that fat black dick into me harder because it’s what my tight black boy pussy loves is on a whole other level, it’s a feeling like no other. I don’t know how to explain how it feels; looking into his eyes, taunting him with the viscousness I was getting fucked at his command, daring him to tell the black guy to fuck even harder, being called to come over to let him watch a new donkey dick fuck me, telling him I wanted someone specific and see that 12 inches of thick black meat you wanted waiting for you naked as you walk through the door... even though i had been taken by those same 12 inches before, when we were being watched by those blue eyes that dark skinned fucker rammed my Hole harder than all the white sissies worshipping his meat... idk why, but somehow it made us forget forget the values and restrictions we were raised with and the behavior toward other black people we usually portray (we’re generally not really as open and freaky amongst each other as we are with other races)... but, truth be told, it’s not something I’ve done a lot; It’s even hotter when I’m taking it from a gigantic black monster Dick if he’s married to a white chick.
It’s not something I need to do every day, but that’s what I describe as my fetish
 
Oh man. You nail it here. My first GF was a Catholic girl. No sex. But damn if I didn’t get where I could lick her pussy. I’d make her cum 10 or more times in a night. I mastered that skill. And since it was all I got it became a fetish. Even convinced a soon to be married woman (less than a week) to let me just lick her pussy and no sex. I held my promise.....though hard....! I even had referral sex based on the fact a few girls got to talking about guys eating pussy and my name was thrown into the mix. I had phone calls the next day asking me out. I gladly provided the requested services.

Now comes my wife. She knows my skills. Tells her friends. We click. Sometimes it’s a long session. Other times it takes two minutes to make her yell. I love making love to her pussy with my tongue.
 
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@Thickbear96 Im glad you enjoyed this entry! More importantly I’m glad you understand where I’m coming from. Your experience is a fascinating question of when did the fetish begin? Was it always there waiting to be revealed or was it created through circumstance?
 

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