? for guys with ed

Do men with ed still feel aroused? My husband used to love sex and also porn. I was jealous of the porn even though we have always watched it, but now I crave it & am not threatened by it at all. He isn't able to get hard enough for intercourse, so I let him know that I'm really turned on by porn now & am especially turned on thinking of him viewing it. He leaves it up to me to find good porn and share it w/him which I have very willingly done for over a year now. I would really like for him to find it as the thought of him viewing it is an instant I'M HORNY for me, plus I'd know what he likes even more (I'm not threatened by the other women as that's my fantasy...to watch him w/her or for us all to be together...which he shares in these fantasies as well). However, he has not brought forth any porn. I'm wondering if perhaps w/ed he simply isn't turned on anymore by anything? Although he seems to enjoy the porn I find & finally used the masterbator toy I bought him & brings it out on his own now.
I'm very adventurous and will try just about anything for my pleasure or to simply turn him on (w/out any intercourse pressures)which he seems to enjoy, but never initiates. I'm not worried about him cheating, so I don't think that is why..he simply can't get going anymore...so, again..do men w/ed still FEEL aroused?THANKS from a wife of 30 years who still loves sex & is trying to help her hubby w/his ed!!

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Speaking for myself I can tell you that men with ED still have libido and desire. Several years ago when I started having trouble getting an erection it was frustrating because I thought erotic thoughts and desired erotic activity, but my penis just wouldn't rise. That's when I went to my urologist and he prescribed Viagra. That really works, and has been a godsend to reclaim my pride and pleasure. Presumably your man has seen a urologist about his problem.

Stress, smoking, clogged arteries, etc. can all be the source of the problem. If he's on some prescribed drugs they could be causing his lack of interest and resultant ED. Diet and exercise can alleviate some of it, but he may need other treatment and should get help from a urologist.

Getting back to your man's lack of interest to satisfy you, he should be able to provide pleasure for both you and himself without an erection. In my case I love eating pussy as much as fucking so my wife and I always got a lot of satisfaction together when I went down on her orally. I still use Viagra regularly, but if I get horny and find I've used all of my supply, and can't get hard, I still have the desire despite the temporary ED. I hope this give you some hope for a better future.
 

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