For Men, Is "Squirting" Really A Turn-On?

Hi Friends,
I am a little shy to admit that I don't believe I have ever really squirted, per se. (At least not like what I see with women in pornos!)

During a recent encounter with a new partner and some incredible intimacy, I am told by him that I was "gushing," however. My goal is to be able to squirt, as I feel he deeply desires this, wanting to bring me to new levels of sexual satisfaction! All of our playdates encompass oral sex, no actual intercourse between us, and a few amazing adult toys -- love the G-Spot Vibrator and his mouth on my clit sucking at the same time, brought me to an amazing orgasm. With more touching, kissing, and stimulation, I can usually come again. I'll admit too that much has to do with "desire." If I'm really into the guy, I'm really into the sex, however, if I am just so-so interested, I usually do it once, and that's it for me. My mind is what turns me on, although if the guy is really into me and knows how to touch me as a woman, satisfy me with foreplay and continued arousal techniques, then I'm there for more!

What I would like to know or like to learn from those who know and/or are trying for the same as me, is how to squirt. I can feel the intensity building, the pee-like feeling is often so intense (especially when I am with him, less on my own), and I believe the right spots are being aroused, and stimulated, however I can't seem to bring myself to a "squirting" orgasm, I so incredibly crave, desire.

Any suggestions, ideas? This FlowerChick wants to squirt for you! Do guys really like it so much? Is it a real turn-on? My guy is very adept and wants me to squirt on his face, I suppose much like I want him to cum on my face and neck so I can taste him, rub it in me and lick it up. I really need the 411 and some "how-to's" on squirting, please. Is it that easy like I see with some women in pornos?

Does age and/or medications interfere? As a younger woman, I never squirted and probably just gushed, but now in my 40 I continue to be highly orgasmic, so wanting sexual satisfaction at least once, sometimes twice on a daily basis (although I don't get it daily from a man, I take care of myself)!:biggrin1:

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I think if a female can squirt, it's a huge turn on for me. I've seen a few videos on spankwire/porn hub/youporn/etc and it SEEMS like you just have to feel real comfortable. Now I'm no female so I can't really say that's a valid answer.

I'm 27, my GF is 24. When we first started sleeping together, it was hard for her to lay there and orgasm by oral but as she got more comfortable, it became easier. I'm experimenting to see what feels best for her and so far, it appears to be both stimulation of the clit AND the G-Spot. It's been a few weeks since I've been doing both parts and as time goes by, I can feel more "wetness".

Hopefully one day she can squirt. She says she feels like she can, but it just doesn't happen. I think it will come with time and patience but what I noticed that is most important is that feeling comfortable with yourself and around your partner will be your best bet.

I would love it if a woman can squirt. I wouldn't mind taking it on my face and mouth. After all, it's just returning the favor, right? haha
 
try to be vocal
I find that makes everything better for both people
and you can exerciseyour pc muscles doyou knwo how
 
Just so you don't feel inadequate.
I would suspect most who reply to your blog find squirting a turn on.
I do not
The thought of it does nothing for me
Never been with a woman who does
So I would not think it is easy for a woman to do
I am of the belief that most of what is squirting in porn is urination
 
thanks for that.
I suspect as within a porn context, much of it is an act. Actors act.
What puzzles me though is if it's mostly urination, sex has to be pretty uncomfortable for the women "who seem to squirt a lot.". When my bladder is even slightly full, I feel it, and it's NOT a pleasurable feeling, quite the opposite.

I am having an online conversation with a woman and have no reason not to believe her. She explains to me how she is able to squirt and does so often. I suspect that there is a "comfortability" factor in play here as well.
While I may feel comfortable, maybe my body is telling me otherwise. I can feel the "tenseness" (is that a word?) within my pelvic muscles for certain. I feel I am so tight probably I don't need to do Kegel exercises, maybe I should try some Yoga!
 
Everyone loves a squirter!! LOL Never been with one, but I have seen it before.

Yeah, tenseness is a word, but tension is preferable :)
 
Squirting is a HUGE turn on for me!
I've been trying to get my GF to squirt and so far she gushed a little once but it wasn't really "squirting", she didn't shoot it and there was very little fluid. But we're getting there. As we get to know each other physically the orgasms get more and more intense and I believe that day is near.
I totally believe in that comfort thing. If you allow yourself to "let go" and let your body react on its own without containing yourself (being vocal is a part of it) then you'll reach new heights. And don't forget to breathe, lol.
Also, I believe having strong PC muscles is a must, so you should do your Kegels. :)
 
I think guys find squirting hot, but not as much as you'd might think. If it happens they'd think it's very hot but if it doesn't not something we're gonna think about really.

i did recently see a super hot squirting scene that turned on the hell out of me. i watch a good amount of porn and hardly ever see squirting so that might be why i found it so damn hot. this girl was getting screwed bent over a table standing up, moaning, screaming, enjoying getting the shit fucked out of her, while 2 other girls were there playing with her and watching and out of the blue she squirted tons. surprising even the 2 other girls that were there. it was damm hot
 

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