"Is he hot (to me)?" is the first question I ask
If he takes good physical care of himself, then I proceed to the next question:
The flipside of my rule is that by being circumcised myself, I risk filtering myself out of my own dating life.
Until next time...
- Exultis_
Except that I don't ask it, it's more an instant judgement from looking at his profile picture
If he takes good physical care of himself, then I proceed to the next question:
"Is he circumcised?"
One of my most common experiences is to find a guy's profile,
then notice he's physically hot,
This comes from my fixation on foreskin; only to despair to myself
"Oh no, he's circumcised."
At which point I close the profile, never to be looked at again.
"Oh no, he's circumcised."
At which point I close the profile, never to be looked at again.
The bonding experience of edging while docking with someone I have an emotional connection with is so important that I'm willing to filter my entire dating life through it.
Exploring a man's personality even comes after this, I must admit.
(Though I don't make a habit of having sex before knowing someone well, which presents a challenge: how do I know if a man has the goods without having sex with him until we know each other well?)
The flipside of my rule is that by being circumcised myself, I risk filtering myself out of my own dating life.
The solution to this is foreskin restoration, and damn, it takes a long time.
The work is worth it though.
To give you all a reason to read this beyond the text, here's a picture of me. The work is worth it though.
I'm about ~160lbs right now, (25lbs under my previous max).
Thanks for reading, leave a comment or send a message with your thoughts, photos, or solicitations of friendship!I lost that weight while dealing with digestive health issues, and I'm nearly ready to start building my way back up and beyond to my ultimate goal of 6'3"/210lbs.
(I'll do a blog series about my bodybuilding challenges in the future, so check back for that in the future.)
Until next time...
- Exultis_