I have this straight guy friend and due to certain circumstances he hasn't been getting any lately. When I say lately, I mean in about three months...I know, "DAMN!!!" is what I said too.
Before I go any further, I just want to make this clear that I'm not asking wether he's gay or not or if it's gay for him to have sex with another guy or anything like that. I already know the answers to those questions and it has nothing to do with any of that.
back to the story. So anyway, he's the kind of guy who opens up more when he's "under the influence" let's say. We often have conversations about not getting laid (as I'm kind of in the same boat as him, only I've not gotten laid in a week)...and as I'm a sex addict, it's easy for me to swing any conversation back to sex.
Well, in these conversations, he's been getting very candid about asking me what I like to do when I have sex, and saying things like, "I don't care who I do it with anymore, I just want to feel 'sex.'" In my experience, these are things that guys say when they want to let you know that they're willing to give into you. The only problem is I wouldn't normally do anything with him...except now, I'm super horny and feel just about the same way he does.
Also, I'm friends with his dad who is the type of guy that if you cross him, you'd kill yourself before he gets to you...and no one messes with his son.
The thing is, I don't really want to cross that line, because I do see him pretty often and I don't want any awkwardness between us. I hate that feeling. The other thing is, he's not making the first move. As many gay guys who've been in this situation know, making the first move can either be a great thing, or lead to getting your ass kicked. This is no exception to that dichotomy.
Oh, did I mention that he's hung like a fucking bull? Yeah, there's that too.
I'm leaning towards doing the right thing and keeping my distance from that situation.
Before I go any further, I just want to make this clear that I'm not asking wether he's gay or not or if it's gay for him to have sex with another guy or anything like that. I already know the answers to those questions and it has nothing to do with any of that.
back to the story. So anyway, he's the kind of guy who opens up more when he's "under the influence" let's say. We often have conversations about not getting laid (as I'm kind of in the same boat as him, only I've not gotten laid in a week)...and as I'm a sex addict, it's easy for me to swing any conversation back to sex.
Well, in these conversations, he's been getting very candid about asking me what I like to do when I have sex, and saying things like, "I don't care who I do it with anymore, I just want to feel 'sex.'" In my experience, these are things that guys say when they want to let you know that they're willing to give into you. The only problem is I wouldn't normally do anything with him...except now, I'm super horny and feel just about the same way he does.
Also, I'm friends with his dad who is the type of guy that if you cross him, you'd kill yourself before he gets to you...and no one messes with his son.
The thing is, I don't really want to cross that line, because I do see him pretty often and I don't want any awkwardness between us. I hate that feeling. The other thing is, he's not making the first move. As many gay guys who've been in this situation know, making the first move can either be a great thing, or lead to getting your ass kicked. This is no exception to that dichotomy.
Oh, did I mention that he's hung like a fucking bull? Yeah, there's that too.
I'm leaning towards doing the right thing and keeping my distance from that situation.