As a woman I love to run my hands around the back of the neck of my guy, and to run my fingers through the hair on the nape of his neck. I find myself doing this naturally without a specific thought and even intentionally, it just feels good. I'll often grab a bit of hair, although short and hold it, giving me a feeling of control and dominance at the moment. I wonder about many of the sexual activities that comprise our sexuality and from where it comes.
While we were intimate and i was blowing him, my guy friend surprised me. He grabbed my long hair at the nape of my neck, taking a handful, like grabbing and holding me, and moving my head about. Oh, I noticed alright. It occurred as our passion deepened, him reaching the point of no return. The whole experience suddenly seemed more intense for me, I suppose for him as well.
I thought "hair pulling" only occurred in romance novels, and to have experienced it was interesting and ultimately exciting. It gave me that feeling in a way of being controlled by him, me being submissive to him.
QUESTION: So why is it that some men will grab a woman's hair during sex. Is it the tip of the iceburg or a hint for a desire for "rough sex". Do men pull a woman's hair unconsciously, or with intention? Or is it something that just happens during the heat of the moment? I'm curious what heterosexual men here who actually do it have to say about it, how they feel about it, why they do it, from where does it come? Do men do it with some women and not others? What do you think of hair pulling?
*
FlowerChick
While we were intimate and i was blowing him, my guy friend surprised me. He grabbed my long hair at the nape of my neck, taking a handful, like grabbing and holding me, and moving my head about. Oh, I noticed alright. It occurred as our passion deepened, him reaching the point of no return. The whole experience suddenly seemed more intense for me, I suppose for him as well.
I thought "hair pulling" only occurred in romance novels, and to have experienced it was interesting and ultimately exciting. It gave me that feeling in a way of being controlled by him, me being submissive to him.
QUESTION: So why is it that some men will grab a woman's hair during sex. Is it the tip of the iceburg or a hint for a desire for "rough sex". Do men pull a woman's hair unconsciously, or with intention? Or is it something that just happens during the heat of the moment? I'm curious what heterosexual men here who actually do it have to say about it, how they feel about it, why they do it, from where does it come? Do men do it with some women and not others? What do you think of hair pulling?
*
FlowerChick