Growing up pierced #10

Reading my blog, one might think that I'm more gay than straight and I got some messages asking me whether I was one or the other.
As the title of my posts shows it, I'm mainly talking about my upbringing and sex education on here because I thought it would be interesting for more "mainstream" people to know what it's like to grow up in a family like mine. I do believe that the majority of people are born more or less bisexual and only a little minority of them are born either gay or straight. My older brother for instance is 100% straight but he tried with guys before settling for girls only. He tried and liked it actually and still appreciates when his wife licks his anus or fingers it, he's just not really drawn towards guys. He says that, if he feels horny and finds a guy wanting to suck his dick he'll say yes, even have sex with him, but he just doesn't think about guys that way when seeing one on the street for example. He is in a monogamous marriage and seems very happy with that although his wife doesn't mind him straying with another dude once in a while as long as she can watch. He says he does it mainly for us and apparently it never happens more than once or twice a year (and she does the same with girls in return).
My little brother is 100% gay the same way our older brother is 100% straight. He only feels emotional connections with other men and he says they make him cum harder. However, he does have a higher than average sex drive to the point that it's almost worrying. So his boyfriend lets him fuck random girls whenever he is not able to fully satisfy him but he doesn't want to see it more hear about it. The number of these side fucks has lowered since they started living together and I guess his bf's humongous horse dick helps taming V's urges.
I consider myself somewhere in the middle (literally). I've only been in love with girls so far but I do seek sexual relationships with guys. I really do like both equally. This a the result of my upbringing. It's not like I've taught to be bisexual but rather the result of the accumulation of small details.
For instance, growing up, it was very normal to hear other guys like my dad, my uncles, my cousins and my grandpa, say things like "This is a good looking guy!" the same way they would say "This is good looking woman!". It was something very acceptable. I've also seen two man or two woman kiss multiple times. My grandma died prematurely and I remember my grandpa having lots of (younger) boyfriends and girlfriends. One of my uncles, who got divorced also had plenty. As a kid you tend to mimic adults so sometimes I once kissed my cousin on the lips. My parents explained me that it was not acceptable because he was my cousin but not because he was a boy. They actually said I could kiss anyone I wanted on the lips, just not my cousins or brothers.
Then later on when I grew older, my dad gave me "the talk" automatically assuming that, at some point, I would have sex with a dude. At least once. During that talk he never said "If you have sex with a dude you should do this or that" he said "when you have sex with a dude you should...". I also know for a fact he has sex with guys from time to time and my mom can stray with girls as well.I know it sounds weird to most of you but almost every single married couple in our family works like this. When we say "monogamous" it means your spouse is the only one of his/her gender, not the only one period.

In our community, which is actually bigger than I thought, the vast majority of married people are in a heterosexual relationship and I guess having sex with only that woman you're married with is as much a matter of respect than a way to make sure guys don't have children out of wedlock. This is how it got explained to me. Cheating on your wife or your husband is a very serious thing though. It has happened to some people and I heard my dad and uncles talk about it. I guess this is the main forbidden element in our culture. Even my brother who's gay was very much made aware that if he waste marry that guy it was going to be the only guy for the rest of his life. Our dad doesn't play with that. If we ever get caught cheating he's probably going to disown us, I'm not kidding. It's a matter of pride and self control.
Having sex with other dudes while being married, on the other hand, is seen as a proof of manliness. This is the polar opposite of mainstream culture but, in a way, it comes from the opposite side of the world.
Only "clean" guys are allowed, that is cut and pierced. When I was little we did not know many families in our community outside ours. So I had my first sexual experience with a man relatively late, or at least later than I would have wanted to. As I said in another post, it was with JP, a guy twice my age at the time that my dad had more or less found and chose for me, knowing that I had never tried guys before and wanted to. He also chose JP because JP had a very good looking son my age name G. who needed his cherry popped as well. So they basically swapped sons. JP and I now have a very special relationship. It's not like what we did is a secret as I though it would be. Whenever he visits or have us over, he's very tender and loving with me even though his wife might be there. For instance he greets me with a nice hug, sometimes a kiss on the cheek or on the lips.He passes his hand through my hair whenever he walks by me. If we're naked, which happens quite often, he would ruffle my pubes or chest hair while we're laying by the pool. Dad does the same with G. I guess popping someone's cherry creates attachment. It also creates entitlement. JP has his own way to get his way with me. Once, for instance, it was in thee middle of the afternoon. We were having a big gathering in our house and I went to my room to pick up something. He followed me, entered the room one minute after I did and simply said : "Here, suck that real quick!" while holding his dick in his hand. He made me swallow his cum which is a very intimate and personal thing to do for a guy like him. I'm probably the only person besides his wife whom he lets gulp his semen. That got me really excited but when I asked him, later that day, if we could fuck, he told me he would let me know if he wanted. I guess the full orgasm cut all his stamina for the day as he never tried anything else. I went to G. and asked him if he was down to drop by my room, he said yes. He sucked my dick almost till I came which wasn't difficult since I was highly worked up, and I thrusted in his ass. I've got a big dick, I'm sure he doesn't get one like this very often, he made a lot of noise. I guess Dad heard him and barged in. He told me to get out and got hard in a split second, thrusting in G's ass. I was standing there, hard as a rock. He fucked him doggystyle on the floor, then on the side, still on the floor and then upside down then missionary. G came all over his belly and quickly after Dad pulled out and sat on his face to make him eat his ass. He gave a couple strokes to his cock and let it go to come handsfree all over the floor. Then he made him wash his cock with his mouth and told me " Now you can have him !" as he sat on the bed. He added " Common' show me what you got !". G was still on the floor, my dick was lubed up but already on the verge of exploding. I thrusted in. He screamed louder than he did with Dad simply because my dick is longer and thicker. He even said "it's so big" a few times.
Dad said " Now take him on the side, he likes it !". So ? I took him on the side. I didn't really know how to do it so Dad took my arm and put it in a comfortable position, then he lifted one of G's legs and "handed" it to me. When we were in the right position he said "Now pound him hard !". I was not going hard enough apparently, he yelled "Harder ! Make him come !". "I'm gonna shoot soon," I said. "You've got a big dick but you don't know how to use it!".
He started jerking G off and couldn't help but kissing him profusely as I was still fucking his ass. In between two kisses, he whispered : "He's not as goos as me, right?" and G said "Not even close" to which Dad replied "He's learning, like you !". Then magically, as if he could read in G's mind, Dad let go of his cock and G started spraying his cum on the floor and partially on Dad as well while letting out screams muffled in kisses. I wanted to cum inside but I knew I was going to get slapped in the face if I did so I managed to pull out right after G came and started shooting right away while Dad counted the squirts : "1...2...3...4...5...6...7....8....9 ! Shit, you're a cum fountain !"
It took us a minute to catch our breath and then he said : "Good job guys! You still need a little cheating but it's heading the right direction ! Now go a take a shower...and clean this mess we made!" Then he got out of the room.


So, as you can see my upbringing taught me more about sex with guys than sex with girls which I also had "lessons" of but learned mostly on my own. I fucked ten times more girls than guys but I'm not sure that these stories would be any different than yours and therefore interesting to read.

Comments

Thanks for sharing. I can fully indentify with a number of points and experiences you've mentioned in this blog. You've hit much of it on the head.
 
Really ? Can you be more specific ? I see you're from Australia so I'm getting curious as to know wether there are people like us there.
 

Blog entry information

Author
cutNpierced
Read time
7 min read
Views
426
Comments
2
Last update

More entries in General

More entries from cutNpierced

Share this entry