I swear guys are so damn complicated. I've decided that this summer I would rely mostly on my vibrator. While I was at school I had a fuck buddy and we've hooked up a few times this summer. No big deal. Everything was cool because I feel as though all my relationships are too complicated so this friends with benefits situation was ideal. Everything has been fine for the last yr. I let him know from the start what my boundaries were. I DON'T GIVE HEAD. Also, I told him I dont want him to finger me or give me head. Its not that I will feel obligated once he does....its just just that it doesn't feel good. It doesn't feel bad either...just neutral i guess. I gave in and he tried both once and like i said nothing. The sex is great but he cums too fast for me. I tell him to try and hold out as long as he can and he does but there are times where that might only be 5 minutes. He often jokes around that he might need Viagra. In June we had been fuck buddies for 10 months. After months of trying to persuade me to give him oral sex I did. And it was fine. I was expecting his penis to taste bitter or something but it tasted like nothing. I did it twice (the last 2 times). At times I am lazy and i dont like to get on top (though I have) but he REALLY likes doggy style so thats what we do the most. He says he likes the sound of "pounding ass" or whatever. Lately he's been asking more from our fuck buddy agreement. He wants us to cuddle alot and stuff. I dont mind that though. I've basically done everything I said I wouldnt do. Everything seemed fine but I have a small problem though. I'm embarrassed to have an orgasm with him. I did it twice and I felt quite embarrassed so the last time we had sex I told him to stop. Friday we was talking about it and he got mad. Then he blurs out that i'm not even that great im bed and that i'm selfish. I was instantly furious. How fucking dare he! If i'm not that good in bed why is it that he can cum almost instantly after putting it in my pussy. He then said that how fast he cums has nothing to do with it. I think so! And then i'm selfish? Was i selfish when I was sucking your dick? I think not! I'll always be his friend but the first thing we said when we decided to be fuck buddies is that we'll tell each other how we feel. When he was cuming too fast I told him but I don't appreciate what he said to me under anger. I think i need to just move on and that we just go back to being friends for good. I must admit that fucking him was convenient over the school yr. For now i'm sticking to only my vibrator. So, does anybody have any advice or been in a situation similar to mine?