Handjobs, blowjobs, and cum oh my!

So as any of you who have read my previous blogs know, I've started dating a guy, and we've been dating a little over two months now. Things are wonderful, we've had our spats, we differ in opinion about things, but it's the relationship I've always wanted and more.

Neither of us are big on penetration, and for guys it's sometimes much less personal because there are only so many positions that you can take, that are comfortable for the guy who's doing the bottoming, so therefore, we are big into handjobs and blowjobs.

I'm starting to figure out what makes my guy work, how to pleasure him the best way, what makes his body squirm, and how to make him moan, etc. I love handjobs, blowjobs are ok, it's the cum that gets me every time. I love pleasuring him, and thankfully, my guy isn't like me at all. His loads are small, and he dribbles, he never squirts unless I get him going for an hour or so, then he'll squirt like once, which is fine because my gag reflex is very sensitive. Anyways, that's beyond the point.

For some reason, I just dread the cumming part each and every time, because I HATE letting it just dribble out on him, because then we have to clean up, and I feel like I should take it in, and I don't like spitting out because I think that's just mean, so I feel like I have an obligation as a boyfriend that if I got him to climb the mountain, I should take responsibility for it haha. If that makes sense. I think I dread it moreso for the idea of it. Sperm comes out of the thing you pee with, and it's slimey and gooey, and it doesn't taste like the greatest thing on earth. My guy tastes really sweet though, so that's the plus, but it's just something I think about every time.

What's everyone elses' experiences with blowjobs and swollowing been like as far as when he cums?

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Not a huge fan either, but I've learned to appreciate it. Also if you get into the moment, build up to an orgasm and you know that the one you are giving a blowjob is so close near orgasm it's just fun to swallow or try to swallow. It's that I taste his load, it's more like: so hot that you even share this with me. And last time I had his load in my mouth, it wasn't bad at all. Just a bit too much ^^
 
I used to not be a fan of cum in my mouth. The taste can be off putting if their diet is too salty or what not, but the texture was always an issue. I don't particularly like it, lol! It reminds me of snot (in fact cocksnot is a pretty accurate term, lol)

I haven't gotten into the texture til I met my Guy. A) we cums a little B) its insanely sweet and C) he snowballs me.

This last one has helped with the texture. I cum quite a bit. Having him take my load in his mouth, then receiving it
back, dilutes it to a more precummy state, which is fine, From there I got over the mental block and have been able to lap his cum from his leg, belly, etc. Sometimes we just need a bit of help in overcoming that mental blocky anticipatory moment. It might work for you.
 
Dude, that mental block kept me and still keeps me from sometimes going down on my wife after I cum inside. While I'm in the heat of the moment I will do whatever, when the moment has passed though my stomach gets a little queezy at the thought of slurping out my own cum from my wife. Its not that idea isn't hot, its just like nico said, its the texture i usually find i dont like. I'm not sure if I cum alot, but my wife swallows only if its in the back of her throat. For her its easier that way. Either way i think nico is right. Just try different things to get past the texture of it i suppose. Or maybe try a change in diet. It helped me. Mime was pretty salty until i started drinking way more water, and fruits. Helps a bunch with the texture as well.
 
Intrigue;bt36605 said:
Dude, that mental block kept me and still keeps me from sometimes going down on my wife after I cum inside. While I'm in the heat of the moment I will do whatever, when the moment has passed though my stomach gets a little queezy at the thought of slurping out my own cum from my wife. Its not that idea isn't hot, its just like nico said, its the texture i usually find i dont like. I'm not sure if I cum alot, but my wife swallows only if its in the back of her throat. For her its easier that way. Either way i think nico is right. Just try different things to get past the texture of it i suppose. Or maybe try a change in diet. It helped me. Mime was pretty salty until i started drinking way more water, and fruits. Helps a bunch with the texture as well.

I would think that after your cum has mixed with her juices, that the texture would be ok. And, bonus, it will still be body temp! I still have issues with cum that has cooled. Euuugh! Though i am working through it, lol! Also think of how hot she will find it. That's how I first got talked into being snowballed, lol. That might help you overcome it?:confused:

Agree with the water thing. It will make the cum less viscous and therefore less snot like.:tongue: Fruits in general, pineapple in particular, enhance the flavor.
 
Two suggestions..
First, if it's just the thought of having to swallow after it's in your mouth, try this...If you can tell when he is about to come, go down as far as you can on him, and let it get in your throat first.

If that still bothers you, try not swallowing. You can make it very sexy for him and depending on his sensitivity after cumming, just continue to go up on down on his cock with your mouth, spreading it all over his cock, or just before he cums, pull off and finish with a nice handjob.

And to repeat and agree with nico, sometimes it just takes some overcoming. I used to not like it myself, but wanting to please my man, worked my way past it
 
nicodemous76;bt36611 said:
I would think that after your cum has mixed with her juices, that the texture would be ok. And, bonus, it will still be body temp! I still have issues with cum that has cooled. Euuugh! Though i am working through it, lol! Also think of how hot she will find it. That's how I first got talked into being snowballed, lol. That might help you overcome it?:confused:

Agree with the water thing. It will make the cum less viscous and therefore less snot like.:tongue: Fruits in general, pineapple in particular, enhance the flavor.

I'm not sure what it is. but when im all heated up I don't give a fuck. But I come down quick and I loose the nerve or my stomach gets weird. Sometimes I'll forget about it and just have fun. But I always have that moment of hesitation... and I'm actually starting to figure out what it is while I write this... hmm I'll get back to ya on this.
 

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