I do not think that having a big dick is the end-all-be-all of life nor that it's especially helping in sex life in particular for that matter.
Growing up in a family that's both overwhelmingly populated with males with a pretty laid back approach on nudity (not to say nudists), you would think that it would be a topic that was often brought out but actually it was not. Comparing sizes is **almost** taboo in my family which is weird because most of my cousins and other male family members on my father's side are hung like mofos.
My grandpa in particular must be the missing link between human beings and elephants, his is just the most humongous thing I've ever seen. Sitting on a chair it would still hang floppily in the air bellow. There are countless anecdotes I could tell about it. Like the time he was sitting by the pool, outside, on the edge of a chair and the dog started playing with his thing. Or the timeS when a younger cousin asked made a innocent reflection about it. I did it and I guess virtually all of us cousins did it. Mine happened when I was seven and said "Howcome yours is so much bigger than mine?" to which he answered "give ten more years and it'll be the same!". That was his go to answer to all the remarks we made, little did he know my cock grew to look exactly like his (only shorter and thinner).
I'm thinking about that because it happened again lately, this time if was one of my cousin's son who compared him to an elephant. His answer was the same. He then changed the subject, the same way he always does, because talking about size is just not his thing and I guess it became no one's thing in the family.
I never heard anyone saying that they have a big dick or that I had a big dick. Around the age of 15 became concerned with my size (as all teenagers do) and wanted to reassure myself (just like every other teenager). I got told by friends at school that the average size was 15cm. I grew even more concerned because at the time my dick was 14cm long. I tried to talk about it with my dad and he confirmed that the average size was 14 cm, I was mortified. He replied to my concerns by saying "Of all, you're the one that has to worry the least!". Him, my brothers and my mom were the only ones who had already seen me naked at the time as I was deemed too young to be naked while with the extended family.
Being surrounded by my cousins became difficult for a moment but I could keep my clothes and especially my bathing suit around the pool so it made it bearable. All of them rock 15cm at least, my big brother also does, some were not even 20 years old and already were way pass that bar and they were not shy about it when adults were not around. Once one bragged about his 17cm in the presence of adults and he got yelled at in front of everyone by his dad saying things like "No one cares about the size of your dick! If anything, I should be the one bragging about it and you should be bragging about your GPA IF ONLY IT WERE AS BIG !".
Needless to say, from then on, my cousins and I only talked about it amongst ourselves. So I know all of their sizes and grew more and more concerned. I had a cousin with a 18cm dick for Christ sake ! And he was muscular and handsome on top of that... I was jealous to the core. It lasted for several months until something unclogged everything :
One day, my dad saw me climbing down the stairs in a bathing suit, trying to get to the pool as discretely as possible during a family gathering. I remember the look he gave me. I also remember every single of his words :
- Where are you going?
- To the pool.
- No need for a bathing suit anymore, you're almost a man.
- I'd like to keep it on.
I was halfway down the stairs, he looked around to make sure no one had seen me and climbed back up and took me to my room. He's not much of a talker so I sensed this was going to be unusual.
He closed the door.
- Take the bathing suit off, please!
He said "please" but it was more like an order. I didn't budge.
- Now you're almost 16, it's long overdue, aren't you proud?
- Proud of what, I have a small dick !
- What ? Then if you have a small dick, what should I say?
He was already naked but I had never really paid attention to it. His tool was maybe one centimetre smaller than mine at the time. At that moment I dared asking :
- How big is it ?
- It's above average and I'm very fine with it.
- This is not above average.
- What do you mean ?
- This is smaller than 15cm ! Mine is 14 and is longer than yours !
- You stupid little air-head... You thought that 15 was the size soft? What ... I mean how...? Do you realize how stupid it is? It's 15cm hard you dummy ! HARD!
I was flabbergasted to say the least and couldn't believe it. So I stupidly said :
- But everyone is around 15cm soft !
- Everyone in the family maybe ! And not me by the way. And not you ! Have you ever seen a guy naked outside of the family ?
- No...
- Then you would know.
- Then you mean everyone in this family has a huge cock...
- Not everyone but yes, most people, including you.
- Mine is 17 hard ! I'm hung !
I was over the moon but he was not having it :
- No, you're not and no one cares about the size of your dick and you'll always find someone bigger so hold your horses, please.
I did not pay attention to what he was saying and kept talking to myself :
- And if it keep on growing I'll be super-hung ! Do you think I could be like grandpa?
- No way ! But V. (one of my cousins) probably will. Believe me, you don't wish that upon yourself !
- Why ? That must be awesome ?
- Awesome for who ? The guys in the locker room? Wonderful ! And not all of them find it attractive. Ask any guy my age, we all prefer a young dude with a small dick and a short taint, with the hole very close to the ball sack. And all of it as tiny as possible. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy you got a nice package but it'll be nice for you to have it once you're married, for now it's kind of awkward to see this on a boy your age. And even later, having a huge schlong is more often than none a handicap. Believe me, all my brothers wish they had my dick, 17 hard just like yours, way easier to get hard and way easier to manoeuvre ! Now you're young and dumb and of I could make that decision, I'd stop your dick growth right now, you'd thank me later ! Ask any woman or even guy, a dick needs to be reasonably long and thick. Not too thick, otherwise it simply hurts the ones taking it and not too long otherwise you can't get balls deep. You'll see when you have sex, ain't nothing better than having your balls clapping against the entrance and very hung guys can't do that. Even I can barely do it with certain tight holes.
At the time, it was the biggest load of sex-ed I had ever received.
- Now take off the swimming trunks ! Worst than a guy with a small dick is a guy who's too afraid to show it. And you're lucky I got you cut and pierced a long time ago otherwise you would have had the whole family analysing your junk before the operation and arguing about the best solutions. That's what happened to me! I was fifteen and grandpa and all my uncles and older cousins were there...
- And did they say anything about your size ?
- No one gives a fuck about the size of it ! But I got praised though !
- Praised for what ?
- Because it's beautiful ! That's what matters ! My cock is freaking beautiful ! I had no foreskin at all and a big mushroom head, that's very manly on a 15 year old ! That and the size of my balls, many were jealous of me. I could have gone for a PA but I went for a full piercing across the head and now I dare you to find one person who doesn't think I have the most good looking dick in the room. No one likes droopy skin and a little pointy head.
- And how about the people outside the family...
- You mean, in the community?
- Yes...
- Well, like I said, older dudes might find it odd to have such big package on a 16 year old. Straight married guys prefer big muscles and small dicks.
- And I'm skinny with a big tool...
- You'll find one, don't worry, there are guys who are more...you know, less straight, they'll enjoy having a teen like you who's already a bit grown!
I took off my swimming trunks and asked :
- What do you think of mine ?
- It's beautiful ! You're far from being a man in your head but your body is almost ready. However, you need to shave all that body hair, that's not appropriate on a boy your age.
I was very proud of my body hair which was pretty developed for a 16 year old but he was pretty stern about it. He put his hand on my shoulder and gently but firmly said "I'm the man in this house, I have body hair, you're still a kid and until you get a family of your own, I want you to shave everything whenever we have company, ok?".
He took me to the bathroom and showed me how to get rid of all this hair. That day, I had to shave my legs as well but later on I he would let me get away with just shaving my pubes, belly, chest, armpits and ass, he did not even budge when I would forget and let it grow as long as we did not have company in the house. At the end, I was completely smooth which had the advantage of making my developing muscles look bigger. He took me in his arms, rubbed the hair at the back of my head and kissed me on the cheek, whispering "My little boy!", I had to concentrate to not start tearing up, completely oblivious of the awkwardness of the situation since we were both completely naked. Then he said :
Now let's get downstairs, people must be wondering where we are.
I went downstairs, naked in front of everyone for the first time. I still felt a little anxious but I had no fear.
No one cared the slightest. Not even a glance.
Growing up in a family that's both overwhelmingly populated with males with a pretty laid back approach on nudity (not to say nudists), you would think that it would be a topic that was often brought out but actually it was not. Comparing sizes is **almost** taboo in my family which is weird because most of my cousins and other male family members on my father's side are hung like mofos.
My grandpa in particular must be the missing link between human beings and elephants, his is just the most humongous thing I've ever seen. Sitting on a chair it would still hang floppily in the air bellow. There are countless anecdotes I could tell about it. Like the time he was sitting by the pool, outside, on the edge of a chair and the dog started playing with his thing. Or the timeS when a younger cousin asked made a innocent reflection about it. I did it and I guess virtually all of us cousins did it. Mine happened when I was seven and said "Howcome yours is so much bigger than mine?" to which he answered "give ten more years and it'll be the same!". That was his go to answer to all the remarks we made, little did he know my cock grew to look exactly like his (only shorter and thinner).
I'm thinking about that because it happened again lately, this time if was one of my cousin's son who compared him to an elephant. His answer was the same. He then changed the subject, the same way he always does, because talking about size is just not his thing and I guess it became no one's thing in the family.
I never heard anyone saying that they have a big dick or that I had a big dick. Around the age of 15 became concerned with my size (as all teenagers do) and wanted to reassure myself (just like every other teenager). I got told by friends at school that the average size was 15cm. I grew even more concerned because at the time my dick was 14cm long. I tried to talk about it with my dad and he confirmed that the average size was 14 cm, I was mortified. He replied to my concerns by saying "Of all, you're the one that has to worry the least!". Him, my brothers and my mom were the only ones who had already seen me naked at the time as I was deemed too young to be naked while with the extended family.
Being surrounded by my cousins became difficult for a moment but I could keep my clothes and especially my bathing suit around the pool so it made it bearable. All of them rock 15cm at least, my big brother also does, some were not even 20 years old and already were way pass that bar and they were not shy about it when adults were not around. Once one bragged about his 17cm in the presence of adults and he got yelled at in front of everyone by his dad saying things like "No one cares about the size of your dick! If anything, I should be the one bragging about it and you should be bragging about your GPA IF ONLY IT WERE AS BIG !".
Needless to say, from then on, my cousins and I only talked about it amongst ourselves. So I know all of their sizes and grew more and more concerned. I had a cousin with a 18cm dick for Christ sake ! And he was muscular and handsome on top of that... I was jealous to the core. It lasted for several months until something unclogged everything :
One day, my dad saw me climbing down the stairs in a bathing suit, trying to get to the pool as discretely as possible during a family gathering. I remember the look he gave me. I also remember every single of his words :
- Where are you going?
- To the pool.
- No need for a bathing suit anymore, you're almost a man.
- I'd like to keep it on.
I was halfway down the stairs, he looked around to make sure no one had seen me and climbed back up and took me to my room. He's not much of a talker so I sensed this was going to be unusual.
He closed the door.
- Take the bathing suit off, please!
He said "please" but it was more like an order. I didn't budge.
- Now you're almost 16, it's long overdue, aren't you proud?
- Proud of what, I have a small dick !
- What ? Then if you have a small dick, what should I say?
He was already naked but I had never really paid attention to it. His tool was maybe one centimetre smaller than mine at the time. At that moment I dared asking :
- How big is it ?
- It's above average and I'm very fine with it.
- This is not above average.
- What do you mean ?
- This is smaller than 15cm ! Mine is 14 and is longer than yours !
- You stupid little air-head... You thought that 15 was the size soft? What ... I mean how...? Do you realize how stupid it is? It's 15cm hard you dummy ! HARD!
I was flabbergasted to say the least and couldn't believe it. So I stupidly said :
- But everyone is around 15cm soft !
- Everyone in the family maybe ! And not me by the way. And not you ! Have you ever seen a guy naked outside of the family ?
- No...
- Then you would know.
- Then you mean everyone in this family has a huge cock...
- Not everyone but yes, most people, including you.
- Mine is 17 hard ! I'm hung !
I was over the moon but he was not having it :
- No, you're not and no one cares about the size of your dick and you'll always find someone bigger so hold your horses, please.
I did not pay attention to what he was saying and kept talking to myself :
- And if it keep on growing I'll be super-hung ! Do you think I could be like grandpa?
- No way ! But V. (one of my cousins) probably will. Believe me, you don't wish that upon yourself !
- Why ? That must be awesome ?
- Awesome for who ? The guys in the locker room? Wonderful ! And not all of them find it attractive. Ask any guy my age, we all prefer a young dude with a small dick and a short taint, with the hole very close to the ball sack. And all of it as tiny as possible. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy you got a nice package but it'll be nice for you to have it once you're married, for now it's kind of awkward to see this on a boy your age. And even later, having a huge schlong is more often than none a handicap. Believe me, all my brothers wish they had my dick, 17 hard just like yours, way easier to get hard and way easier to manoeuvre ! Now you're young and dumb and of I could make that decision, I'd stop your dick growth right now, you'd thank me later ! Ask any woman or even guy, a dick needs to be reasonably long and thick. Not too thick, otherwise it simply hurts the ones taking it and not too long otherwise you can't get balls deep. You'll see when you have sex, ain't nothing better than having your balls clapping against the entrance and very hung guys can't do that. Even I can barely do it with certain tight holes.
At the time, it was the biggest load of sex-ed I had ever received.
- Now take off the swimming trunks ! Worst than a guy with a small dick is a guy who's too afraid to show it. And you're lucky I got you cut and pierced a long time ago otherwise you would have had the whole family analysing your junk before the operation and arguing about the best solutions. That's what happened to me! I was fifteen and grandpa and all my uncles and older cousins were there...
- And did they say anything about your size ?
- No one gives a fuck about the size of it ! But I got praised though !
- Praised for what ?
- Because it's beautiful ! That's what matters ! My cock is freaking beautiful ! I had no foreskin at all and a big mushroom head, that's very manly on a 15 year old ! That and the size of my balls, many were jealous of me. I could have gone for a PA but I went for a full piercing across the head and now I dare you to find one person who doesn't think I have the most good looking dick in the room. No one likes droopy skin and a little pointy head.
- And how about the people outside the family...
- You mean, in the community?
- Yes...
- Well, like I said, older dudes might find it odd to have such big package on a 16 year old. Straight married guys prefer big muscles and small dicks.
- And I'm skinny with a big tool...
- You'll find one, don't worry, there are guys who are more...you know, less straight, they'll enjoy having a teen like you who's already a bit grown!
I took off my swimming trunks and asked :
- What do you think of mine ?
- It's beautiful ! You're far from being a man in your head but your body is almost ready. However, you need to shave all that body hair, that's not appropriate on a boy your age.
I was very proud of my body hair which was pretty developed for a 16 year old but he was pretty stern about it. He put his hand on my shoulder and gently but firmly said "I'm the man in this house, I have body hair, you're still a kid and until you get a family of your own, I want you to shave everything whenever we have company, ok?".
He took me to the bathroom and showed me how to get rid of all this hair. That day, I had to shave my legs as well but later on I he would let me get away with just shaving my pubes, belly, chest, armpits and ass, he did not even budge when I would forget and let it grow as long as we did not have company in the house. At the end, I was completely smooth which had the advantage of making my developing muscles look bigger. He took me in his arms, rubbed the hair at the back of my head and kissed me on the cheek, whispering "My little boy!", I had to concentrate to not start tearing up, completely oblivious of the awkwardness of the situation since we were both completely naked. Then he said :
Now let's get downstairs, people must be wondering where we are.
I went downstairs, naked in front of everyone for the first time. I still felt a little anxious but I had no fear.
No one cared the slightest. Not even a glance.