Help me! Is he straight or bi?

:confused: So I have class together with this guy and whenevr he see's me he's always perky and manly. I don't think he's gay but sends me a lot of mixed signals... He dresses like a normal guy talks like one, but always asks me if im unsure about my sexuality. I usually avoid this question not reallying wanting him to know... So he always kinda touchs me like my chest and legs sometimes. He always talks to me and shows me things to gloat. He has pictures of like almost naked girls on his phone to... So one day he looks under the desk and just stares at my legs... Feeling uncomfrotable I ask "why are you staring at my legs?"
he answers," You have really big thighs I wanna eat them" And i was just staring at him like with a major W t f face and he starts laughing.. Now whenever I see him he says he wants to eat my thighs... So.... I really wanna know what the heck is going on with this guy.. He's to me really hot I wouldn't mind him fking me lol... If you need more information ask questions and I will try to answer thanks!

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It's hard to say. I'd say just go with the flow and just be a good friend to him. I have seen similar behaviour in some straight men. Its a kind of banter. I think they're more at ease with physical side of male bonding that gay/bi type guys who may be more afraid of sending the wrong signals. :)
 
Oh I see thanks! :) He does get really annoying sometimes and he sits infront of me so when I'm bored I sometimes just touch his back you know see what his reaction is ,but he doesnt say things usually.
 
Okay so today he's totally teasing me i sware. He gave me this really like sensual look and waved at me, but I know that its for fun sometimes, but really?! lol and he seemed very caring for me because I didn't go to school due to food poisoning and he seemed kind of conerned lol
 
Be direct with him. This kind of situation happemed to me at work. The gentle touching and horse play, I like it but it got a bit much and people noticed. In the end he was sending out mixed signals and confused the life out of me so I asked him out ot lunch and asked him out straight what he was about. If you are sure about how you feel aks him directly why he is such a flirt and why he flirts with you. My guess he is testing the boundaries and he is atrrascted to you and you obviously to him. If you find out you like each other keep it private , see where it leads...who knows? If he goes sll macho on you then tell him to stop toying with you you do not appreciate it.

If you do not ask you will never know. Put this down as a learning experience in the relationship area of your life. Your confidence will grow as you learn to speak to other men,,,it is not easy.

Always let the other partner know your needs and reciprocate to theirs.
 
Ohh the problem is I can't bring my self to ask him I was close to asking him, but I totally chickened out. I don't really wanna ruin my relatioship with him as a friend.. We are not really close friends ,but we do talk alot in class and such... Im afraid if I ask him he's gonna look at me like im some kind of nut and not wanna talk with me anymore. Although I do understand that I have to ask him someday lol xD
 

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