Help with Feelings for friend

Ok so heres the problem, I am not sure of my sexual identity yet and it has created tons of confusion in my life. Now I have become good friends with a guy who I have had a secret crush on for like 5 years, when ever I'm with him I feel like a weirdo or like I will do something that will make him hate me. The other thing is if
I stay over I cant stop staring at him. I know I could never tell him how I feel, he is constantly commenting about how he "hates fags" and all kinds of other things. I'm just looking for thoughts or advice.

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I would leave it alone....its obvious it doesn't like guys and if u bring it up ur friendship will be ruined!!

I think its time for u to get out there and meet some guys perhaps??? Gaydate.com???
 
Yea I think it would ruin our friendship too. I just need to figure out where I'm going in my life. But it sure is painful sometimes.
 
Been there done that...

Consider this ...at present you're "undecided", AND he's undecided..that's all you have in common...so you may choose differently than he does in the end...So Decide...
and chances are you Will meet someone who's a Better Match
for you who has also Decided...Then you can make real progress. Good luck...

Either he's a closet gay or he's straight and prejudiced.
Either way he's not ready to embrace this situation.
Waiting may be painful or long or both...

Sounds like you've already waited 5 years and holding...
It's really Not worth waiting for ...all you end up doing is wasting precious time you could spend With the Love of your life who's Out there Waiting for You!!!

Move on...there are plenty of fish in the sea.
It hurts, but why go thru more pain?
Let him go...not worth it.
If you force the issue it's likely to backfire anyway.IMHO.

Sometimes the best thing is to make a commitment to yourself and say you are Worthy of finding that special someone...Now! Decide what you Do want and chances
are it will come to meet you much sooner!!!
Get off the fence dude! To do so You Must make a New
Choice!!! Hope this helps.

All the best.
 
What you are saying is exactly what I have been thinking its just a hard thing to do I was his friend before I started to like him and it would be weird to just walk away forever. But on the other hand it's also awkward to stay friends I'm going to have to evaluate whats going on and make a choice.
 

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