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I'm irritated. This has been bugging me for a couple weeks. It repeats itself all the time. Maybe it's just me but I give my 100% attention when in a conversation with someone whether it be face to face, text, IM, however the method. What's irritating for me is when someone isn't there in that convo with you. Response takes longer and longer. Tapping of the nails...tick tock Although the talk has turned sexual in nature.... I mean really...isn't the person you're talking to enough? I give up. Can't beat em, might as well join em, right? After all when a person says they're so busy at work or swamped...come on. I have eyes. I'm just never enough.

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Sweetie these are obviously stupid assholes to be treating you this way. Sadly I have had friends who were the same way. Fucking bullshit.

Hangin there darlin'
 
It's happened to all of us. I give one warning then they get put on my blocked list. I figure that if I'm not enough to satisfy them and they act bored then they can happily move along to another person! Saying this, I've also met some wonderful and absolute doll babies here. Men and women that no matter what's going on I can depend on them to help me get out of a funk or just listen to my rants or my school girl antics! Nico my dear...you're definitely worth your weight in gold...make that platinum!!
 
You are enough! You are the perfect amount! And I know I'm not alone in thinking that!

As to those jerks who keep 3 chats going on at once - delete, delete, delete. I think we've all had that happen. One time, I left chat while a guy was doing that and it took him 20 minutes to notice. He didn't get a second chance. You are a woman who deserves a man's complete undivided attention. If it doesn't happen - delete him. Expect the best! Demand the best! *hugs*
 
Don't worry too much about that. People are assholes like nicodemous76 and prettyswinggirl said. They get under your skin because they want to feel important in some other way. A sure sign of some sort of insecurity really.
 
I hate it too..you either have time to talk to me..or you don't. Its annoying when you can just feel they are doing the simultaneous chat..talking to different people at the same time. I consider that rude. For some reason when it comes to online conversations people seem to think that other rules apply in the area of decency. I don't feel that is the case at all from my end..

But for many it is not about getting to know the other person, but about passing time or getting as much attention as possible. I drop those types in a heartbeat..
 
As in other media, the right thing to do when someone contacts you and you are busy is to let them know you can't talk and that you'll get back to them. And you should actually get back to them!

It is just another example of the erosion of common decency the anonymity of the internet has fostered in our daily relationships.
 
First of all I need to make it clear that I never said he was an asshole. My whole point with this entry was to get my frustration off my chest. Wasn't my intention to portray him as a bad person. But I do thank you all for including your own experiences. I need to talk to him about this issue. I do know that.
 

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