Are you happiest holding the leash or wearing the collar?
This is a simple question, but the answer could be the start of happier sexual play. Some people will read that question and be offended on behalf of the parties involved. Those people aren’t a part of this scene and that’s ok. Now to those of us who read that question and are intrigued this is more for us.
Are submissive and Dominant personalities born or created? I don’t know for fact, but I suspect they’re mostly born. I believe the same for Switches. I think the day you’re born you come into this world either with a natural inclination to hold the leash, wear the collar or be disgusted by both lol. No one else can tell you what you are. That’s for you to discover and find out. It’s a journey that we should all be happy to embark on. If you find a partner who can embark on the journey and play your games with you well you’ve won life lol.
There is nothing I love seeing more than a natural submissive owning herself as she is. Fully empowered in the knowledge of who she is and what she needs. There is a power in the submissive that even the Dominant doesn’t control. The Dominant will only help the submissive become who they already are, but haven’t realized. Sometimes the Dominant may walk with the submissive to show them who they want to be, but are afraid to embrace.
This is not to say the Dominant does not have a journey themselves because they do. They must figure out who they are as well. I’ve seen submissives who helped a Dom become what they needed. The bond that grows during these growth stages is mind blowing because you truly grow into yourself WITH someone else. It’s hard to simulate that bond anywhere else. There is also a mental weight with being a Dom as well. You’re a large part of making sure this scene or that scene is perfect for the submissive and making sure the sub isn’t hurt. Then there is the ostensible dichotomy of being a nice sweet person in public and a leash holding taskmaster in private doing things your public persona would blush to see. It’s a fascinating place to be.
I would like to write out some deeper thoughts on this subject. I love the human mind’s various sexual kinks and how those kinks fit or don’t fit in society. It’s absolutely fascinating.
Anyway thanks for reading. I hope you find either your leash or your collar.
This is a simple question, but the answer could be the start of happier sexual play. Some people will read that question and be offended on behalf of the parties involved. Those people aren’t a part of this scene and that’s ok. Now to those of us who read that question and are intrigued this is more for us.
Are submissive and Dominant personalities born or created? I don’t know for fact, but I suspect they’re mostly born. I believe the same for Switches. I think the day you’re born you come into this world either with a natural inclination to hold the leash, wear the collar or be disgusted by both lol. No one else can tell you what you are. That’s for you to discover and find out. It’s a journey that we should all be happy to embark on. If you find a partner who can embark on the journey and play your games with you well you’ve won life lol.
There is nothing I love seeing more than a natural submissive owning herself as she is. Fully empowered in the knowledge of who she is and what she needs. There is a power in the submissive that even the Dominant doesn’t control. The Dominant will only help the submissive become who they already are, but haven’t realized. Sometimes the Dominant may walk with the submissive to show them who they want to be, but are afraid to embrace.
This is not to say the Dominant does not have a journey themselves because they do. They must figure out who they are as well. I’ve seen submissives who helped a Dom become what they needed. The bond that grows during these growth stages is mind blowing because you truly grow into yourself WITH someone else. It’s hard to simulate that bond anywhere else. There is also a mental weight with being a Dom as well. You’re a large part of making sure this scene or that scene is perfect for the submissive and making sure the sub isn’t hurt. Then there is the ostensible dichotomy of being a nice sweet person in public and a leash holding taskmaster in private doing things your public persona would blush to see. It’s a fascinating place to be.
I would like to write out some deeper thoughts on this subject. I love the human mind’s various sexual kinks and how those kinks fit or don’t fit in society. It’s absolutely fascinating.
Anyway thanks for reading. I hope you find either your leash or your collar.