Homophobe

I'm going to say this, because I feel like it needs to be said.

If you are gay, straight, tvtg, whatever ... dont look up people randomly and add them to your messenger list and start chatting them up for sex.
This is especially true, if that person is outside of your "preference"

If someone wants to be contacted, they'll SAY so.

About once a week I get solicitations from gay men wanting to "chat" (meaning cyber, ect) and when I tell them I am not interested, most are cool, but some, especially a certain person who looked me up from LPSG today, are not.
If I do not want to talk about gay sex with a complete stranger, that does not make me a homophobe. It means you are simply not my type.

This author DOES NOT wish to be contacted about sex from anyone other than women.

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it's a shame you had to post this...
I hate when people can't take NO for an answer...
 
That's not homophobic, thats like calling a girl prude for not wanting that kind of attention, sexual harassment is sexual harassment.
 
Because hot_topic90 it happens so often to some people it is impossible to ignore. :cool::mad:

The real problem is that some gay men assume all men are a little bit gay and that if they ask often enough or in the right way then of course the 100% straight man will drop trou and let him suck his cock. :rolleyes: Damned idiots!
 
Well, in general I agree, but remember the many communication failures that occur when we only have the printed word to rely on. A lot of self-identified straight men are remarkably ready to talk about gay sex and more, so I'm afrraid just saying you're straight may not be enough. And someone who is after your body can be very blind to what seems very clear to you. (They'll misinterpret whatever you say in their favour if they possibly can: you're being ironical, playing hard to get, etc. etc.)

I'd say 3 strikes and you're out is a good rule of thumb. But one clear "No, I'm not interested" should be enough.
 

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