How far is too far? Feminine Mystique

Since the inception of my account, I’ve been fascinated by the myriad of pictures that everyone (Male and Female) have posted in their galleries and albums. I’ve struggled with what I should post in mine if anything at all.

My boyfriend is very proud of me and my physical attributes and wants to show me off. While I love showing things to him, I’m not sure I want the entire world to know my secrets regardless if I show my face or not.

This led me to ask the question; How far is too far in this day and age? I think most things are acceptable now because more than ever people are becoming very open minded to a lot of things the media have grown us accustomed to.

What happened to the feminine mystique? Leaving things to the imagination? Many of us including guys from the forums I’ve read on here state that sex isn’t much of anything unless there’s mental stimulation. How much of it is physical and how much of it is mental? I think the aspects vary from male to female for sure. Additionally, what is included in that mental stimulation? What you want to do/about to do to your partner/imagining what's under his jeans or what's under her shirt/skirt? etc.

How do you all feel when you see a full blown naked picture vs. pictures that leave you guessing at how amazing the stuff is underneath could be?

I think American 20th Century Burlesque shows accomplished this great feat of leaving the mystique in tact and appealing to the senses of the male mind. Granted, there were a lot of burlesque places that offered full blown striptease acts. But the majority of it left more to the imagination while combining parodies to the likes of opera, Shakespearean drama, musicals and ballet.Of this I am very much a big fan.


While I understand not everyone likes the same things, I’m just wondering how far is too far in today’s society and how many people would rather be “teased” with an idea of what’s underneath those lacy panties than to actually see what really is there? Isn’t there kind of a thrill or an adrenaline rush to it?

I’m much a fan of showing things off in certain situations. Like a committed or serious relationship in which you freely give of yourselves to each other. But to show off for the general public, I’d much rather leave men guessing than to come out fully and expose every part of my body to them.

What do you readers think?

Comments

That's why lingerie is such a huge seller. We'd love to see you in your full nakedness, but a little bit of sensual, erotic mystery is also very hot. Maybe you could start with pics that turn YOU on (and it's okay to turn yourself on), then se what kind of response you get. You may decide to get more daring as you get more comfortable.
 
Oh I really like my pics, the ones I've put up. I'm comfy with them and I'd do me if I could (and I do :p) So that's not my issue at all.
 
I'm a closet nympho, exhibitionist and perv...only a few of my real life friends know I'm like this. I love having a place to be a show off. I do like the attention and the compliments. I don't show much of my face and I don't post full nakedness...I show parts...parts in parts, but I love lingerie. I love doing the modeling thing and the sex picture thing is fun too. It's been fun being able to post here so far. No negative experiences to date.

I'm still fairly new here...but I enjoy having a place to show this side of me. Can't post this kinda stuff on facebook. :p

I'm interested as to how guys will respond. I've often thought that seeing someone in their full glory is like peeking at your Christmas presents before Christmas morning...Even before I joined this site I had guys send me pix of their junk...most were just average...and I would think...well this isn't really an incentive to hook up with you. Actually the guys who DIDN'T send me pix of their junk...I've ended up liking the best.
 
red44;bt23845 said:
I'm interested as to how guys will respond. I've often thought that seeing someone in their full glory is like peeking at your Christmas presents before Christmas morning...Even before I joined this site I had guys send me pix of their junk...most were just average...and I would think...well this isn't really an incentive to hook up with you. Actually the guys who DIDN'T send me pix of their junk...I've ended up liking the best.

I'm also interested to see how guys will respond. I'm the type of person who likes to peek before Christmas morning too but the older I get, I find that I'd rather wait for the surprise. And yes, I've never readily went straight for the guy who automatically sends me pictures of his junk BEFORE he even gets to know who/what I am all about.

Actually, there's only been one time in my life where I've gone into a relationship where it began as a friendship fling and ended up as something much more meaningful than I could have ever imagined. That said fling or not, I didn't end up seeing his family jewels until after a year of knowing him and 8 months from the time we started being intimately involved with each other.

I'm the type of person who will be attracted to you physically (clothes on) and intellectually before I ever want to sleep with you. So, I like the mystique and the surprise especially of the first time you are together. Most of the time I've found pictures don't do anyone much justice until you see them in person anyway.
 
It is not an easy question, therefore there is not an easy answer, there is no certain point from that on it is to much or to far. I am a big fan of the mystique, if a picture leaves me wanting to see more it is a good thing. And even more erotic than some that are more revealing.

But there are so many that just use the anonymity this site allows to show things they would otherwise never dare, to get responses and ratings about very private parts of their body, It is especially the case for men here, we show our cocks, not because we think that is the sexiest and best looking picture of us, but because we want a little assurance about it, and the anonymity allows the viewers also to leave impartial comments you could never get from someone you are close enough with to expose your self to in real live. Why should women not feel a little insecure about their tits, asses and vagina and show them for the very same reason?

If you ask me which are the most beautiful pictures on this site i will certainly not have the most revealing ones on my list tho. A lot of them aren't even in color, because black and white in my opinion just adds to the mystique, and is part of the art of teasing.
And i do think you have handled that very well so far, i like your cheekage sneakage picture the best and think it is a good example for that. And i would not advice you to show more if you don't feel comfortable with it, but if you have some exhibitionism in you and like to show, or it is not about the show but about the response than it just is a totally different story.
 

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