My wife and I have 5 kids and she was a virgin when we got married so I have had a lot of first with her. It took me months to get her to give me a blow job and even longer for her to finally enjoy it and for me to teach her what I like. She still won't swallow, but says I taste really good. She has gotten good but not the best I have ever had. Being a virgin she had a tight pussy, but after 5 kids its is not as tight. I am 7.25 BPEL and 6.50 girth so not bad, but I am doing penis exercised to improve. I have finally got her thinking about having anal sex with me. (I have to say I am a virgin at this) I have seen videos and it seems like something I want to try, but I don't know what is the best approach to make it pleasurable for her. 1. What does she need to do to prepare. 2. what is the best lube for anal sex. 3. Should I wear a condom. 4. What is the best position for first timers. 5 Best position for least pain. 6. How deep can I go in? Sometimes when I am pumping hard in the missionary position I tend to hit her coccyx, and that can be painful for both of us. 7. What makes anal sex for straight guys better than vaginal. Is it that much tighter? I cannot wait to explore her. Then maybe I can get her to explore me, I heard prostate massages are great, just never had that either. Any suggestions for you guys will help.