I have a crush on on my coworker

I have recently gotten a new position within my company. With this new position comes new coworkers; one of which is quite hot.

I'm really not sure how to approach this situation. I would like to at least go out with this woman and see how compatible we are, but my friends tell me that would be a horrible idea and I can see their point. When she rejects me it will make things really awkward at the office and might hurt me professionally. I'm already on thin ice because of how things ended at my last position; so it would be silly to take such a huge risk.

Another thing is that this woman is actually pretty cute, and that frightens me. Attractive women are only interested in me when they are mentally unstable and have driven away all other men leaving me as their only dating option. If I approach her and she is receptive that means that she's most likely insane. I just got out of a relationship with a crazy person, and I'm not sure if I'm ready to get into one of those relationships again.

In the end, I don't think I'll pursue a relationship with this woman. If she's at all sane I don't have a chance, and I'm just not mentally strong enough to deal with a crazy woman right now.

But, that's okay. Because, the best part of not getting the person that you want is that you can still think about them and masturbate. Which is really about the same thing.

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Why do you have to date the woman? Enjoy the scenery and beauty for what it is. Date women who don't work with you or aren't your boss.

Who is to say that she isn't the one?

 
I've tried dating a co-worker and it can be really messy and end in disaster. I don't recommend it. True though, there are sometimes when it does work out well, but if it doesn't.... whoo boy.
 
bek2335;bt19518 said:
I'm wondering why you say she would not date you if she is sane.

Because that's usually the way it works for me. Attractive women that are sane seem to avoid me like the plague. Insane women on the other hand, will reluctantly date me. My ex was a good example of this kind of woman.
 
I won't be doing anything with this woman. She's a coworker and out of my league. I was just bored and thought I should I write about it.
 

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