I just don't.

I simply don't get along with most of the black males I meet. I didn't have any black male friends growing up either.

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So. What exactly does that prove? About you? Abourt Black males? or maybe about blind prejudice?

Or have I mistaken the intent of your statement?
 
It's just a statement. One which I actually understand as the OP and I are both black. If like me he grew up in a white neighborhood and went to predominantly white schools, then he never encountered that many black people in general. SyddyKitty is college educated and fewer and fewer black men complete college these days :frown1: Therefore if he is looking for someone who is similar to him in education and socio-economic as well as moral and ethical background he is kinda screwed. Cause there aren't a lot of straight black men like that let alone gay ones.
 
I think thats kinda sad. But I dont think the op meant this in a hurtful way. I have a couple of black friends that have said the same thing to me in private.
 
to NJ: the OP never mentioned anything about educational, socio-economic, or any other levels...he only mentioned race...that is a problem...also, a person's background should have no bearing on their ability to "get along" with anyone...

to Syddy: what's the problem? why don't you get along with black males? do you just not like them? do they not like you?
 
She's right about morals and ethics but that's not a race thing at all. That's just speaking on the poor morals of our society in general.

Anyway, killer, the problem started over the past few years with most not liking me and turned to me simply not liking most of them. We don't get along. Before the spawning of the issue, I simply never made black friends. Didn't try to and none tried to befriend me. Nothing of common ground to speak of besides childhood. No way to relate to them on a meaningful level. It's very hard to tolerate some of the views of them, as they are often viewpoints shared by family members I grew up with and despise.

I really could care less about it being a 'problem'. I'm not seeking to 'fix' it in the least - I have no reason to. The matter is that it's just a sad fact that I don't get along with the males of my own race. If this has any bearing, most of my friends growing up were white females. In my time growing up, I can count just 7 male true friends off the top of my head. I wonder what that says. It's especially disturbing since I'm gay.

Relating to the original post - the next macho nigger that laughs about a black male with relaxed hair is getting a swift kick in the testes.
 

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