i'm a virgin, so what!

what's wrong with not wanting to have casual sex? Am i that weird cause i don't like touching random people? course it might explain why i'm still a virgin but it's my business. silly me for actually for not wanting to have sex unless i love with the person. :frown1: maybe it was the depression and anxiety that caused the emotional wall. but that just the way it is. don't understand the peculiar looks.:confused:

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I don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin. If you choose not to have sex, then it's no one else's business, really. :smile:
 
Its your life your body, don't be swayed by what people considered the norm decide what you want to or "have" to do with them.

Once your happy, Its all that matters :eek:)
 
Nothing is wrong with not having sex! I'm still a virgin (never had intercourse with someone yet that is) and I feel fine with how I am. You should too. Sex isn't something you should be just doing with everyone for the hell of it. I think if someone does casual sex, it should be someone they know well enough to know that they have no STDs and you should never make it a habit.

I'm waiting to see if I love anybody though before I fully let myself go sexually. Don't let other people tell you how you should be! I have depression and anxiety as well but staying true to yourself is important.

Besides... I think masturbation is faaaar too underrated and not appreciated enough while actual sex takes the spotlight somehow. :)
 
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. Yea, I could go out and just have flings here and there, but I would much rather have my sex life actually mean something and be full of fond memories than have sex with someone and not even remember them a week later.

I am proud to be a virgin and I refuse to let anyone make me feel like less of a person because of it.

Be proud, in my opinion, being a virgin in this day and time shows incredible will power.
 
Live the way you want. Dont be a sheep. Sex, no sex, it is your call. I was 19 before I had sex and had a few chances to do it before then. I just wasnt ready yet. Best 2 u. S13
 
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Nothing 'wrong' per se. However your reasons while seemingly valid reasons may point to other issues. Look if 95% of people or 98% have done it by a certain age and you haven't something is amiss.

Losing Virginity Later Linked to Sexual Problems

There's an old saying at work 'If you always do what you always did, you'll always get what you always got'. It may be difficult to one day become a sexual being if that is your desire if you continue to do the same things.
 
If there's nothing wrong (which i agree with, BTW), then why the defensive post?
 
well if someone wants to be a virgin its thrir call.. but one shouldnt supress his/her feelings..... go and have a sex girl u will feel great about it i promise
 

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