I'm not going anywhere

What is with all these wimpy new girls?
You girls can dish it out but you sure can't take it! Truthfully, I like most of y'all even though I don't always agree with you. :smile:

No other female has been more maligned or hated than me in the last 6 months except for maybe Madame Zora & DiamondDeb. Heck, I often got caught in the crossfire of defending Deb's love of big dicks.

Since Valentine's Day when the true nasty trolling started I have been accused of being a trans by a man who was looking at my pics! WTF! I have been told I was heinously ugly, stupid, ignorant, a bitch, called the "n" word so many times I could pay off my student loans if I had a dollar for each time it was uttered. Best of all, tonight a man whom I had previously considered a friend told me I looked like Eddie Murphy in drag and should lose 100 lbs. :mad: (more on that in another blog or thread)

I think that is the difference between girls and women. As a woman I have learned how to lick my own wounds and come back stronger to fight another day...without making a big production of my departure.

If you hear odd thuds as I leave a room, it's because all the men have fallen out of their chairs watching my sweet, black ass sashay out of the room. :cool::wink:

Comments

P,

I dont think this is a contest! LOL! I think we all have our own thresholds of what we feel we can endure. I applaud you for sticking with it in spite of the nastiness you have encountered. Though you have been the recipient of much bad press I would beg to differ with you in saying that you are the only one here who has gone through changes in the last few months other than MZ and Diamond Deb. I think I could make a serious list for you. SOme have chosen to talk about it and others have chosen not to do so. The net is ripe for cowardly pot shots . Sometimes they are absolutely unbelievable in their viciousness but I think we are here to support one another. From what I read (if we are refering to the same case) there seemed to have been tell tale signs of depression. I may be wrong and you and I both know that NOTHING could have happened to make one feel like running away when Depression is the catalyst.
 
First off let me say i have never had the chance to meet you in person but from your pics, as i re blooded man, you are very hot. If someone takes the time to get to know you then they will soon realize that you are smart, witty and very up front - all qualities sadly lacking today.

Women and some men are afraid of strond women like you and Diamond but it is because of these women that the world is becoming a better place.
 
I'm sorry to hear you're undergoing trial-by-flame, njqt. I know it gets old.

If its any consolation, I'll say this: Any simple clown can get on the net merely to snipe, flame or take hateful, chickenshit potshots at honest posts and their authors. Some are even wickedly clever about it. But all that stuff eventually pales before the persistence and endurance of a solid, bona fide character. It takes a steadfast person, a real warrior, to keep on being themselves and retain their dignity and humanity despite the flaming.

I get the feeling you're one of the latter types.
 
you are and always have been a class act. i don't know if this site would be the same if you left, and i'm glad you're not considering leaving because you're on of the "good ones" whose posts I make a sure effort to read. getting unprovoked shit from people sucks, but i think you realize that it reflects them more than it does you. you've never been mean or hateful about your sexuality and your views on the world, and in my opinion, that's not easy to do.

also, you know and appreciate Wawa. even if just for that, you can't leave. i need support.
 
Naughty, you are so right! You are definitely in a much better position to see who is really attacked. I didn't even think of the men who have been attacked and there are even more of them!

My constant battle with depression is no secret and there are times when I have thought about leaving LPSG as a result of the infighting and seemingly innate meanness of some posters. It's just not my nature to stir the pot. So when people post, just to play devil's advocate or they realize that they are being snarky and don't care, it makes me think thats probably how they are in real life. That's sad to me because that means those people spend a lot of time alone and bitter. The may not even know why they are alone and bitter.

There are many nice posters whom I miss and while some may have left because of family and or personal reasons I would not be surprised to hear the nastiness was just something they decided not to have in their lives.


P,

I dont think this is a contest! LOL! I think we all have our own thresholds of what we feel we can endure. I applaud you for sticking with it in spite of the nastiness you have encountered. Though you have been the recipient of much bad press I would beg to differ with you in saying that you are the only one here who has gone through changes in the last few months other than MZ and Diamond Deb. I think I could make a serious list for you. SOme have chosen to talk about it and others have chosen not to do so. The net is ripe for cowardly pot shots . Sometimes they are absolutely unbelievable in their viciousness but I think we are here to support one another. From what I read (if we are refering to the same case) there seemed to have been tell tale signs of depression. I may be wrong and you and I both know that NOTHING could have happened to make one feel like running away when Depression is the catalyst.
 
P, you better not leave or I will hunt you down, they will issue small craft warnings on both coasts, I will SWOOP down on you like the LAST days of Pompeii.

We are better for your knowledge and power on this forum. Don't ever forget that.
 
you are and always have been a class act. i don't know if this site would be the same if you left, and i'm glad you're not considering leaving because you're on of the "good ones" whose posts I make a sure effort to read. getting unprovoked shit from people sucks, but i think you realize that it reflects them more than it does you. you've never been mean or hateful about your sexuality and your views on the world, and in my opinion, that's not easy to do.
Sometimes I forget that my way of thinking is not necessarily the right or only way. :redface: I'm working on that.

Wow, thanks for the compliment! That's really nice of you to say. I'll have to let my shrink know the meds are working. :tongue:

also, you know and appreciate Wawa. even if just for that, you can't leave. i need support. Speaking of Wawa we may have to figure out a way for you to ship me some Wawa Eggnog. This will be my first Christmas without it which could easily bring on a major depressive episode if I don't keep my self occupied. :tongue::biggrin1:
 
There's a different between being wimpy and being an idealist hoping that people can get along.

Guess that's why at the end of the day im a pessimist.

I guess lable me a girl.
 
NJ, you have always been kind to me, even if we disagree. I can't imagine this site without you, but then, I don't see you going anywhere...just call me an idealist! Love ya girl, don't ever be anyone you are not!
 
My dear you are beautifull inside and out. I feel sad that we live in such a world where people say such horrible things. This site can be very Daunting. Dont fall prey to the hate. Feel the love that is here for you in so many ways.
 
I know,that you know better, than to give in to these dumb-assed stupid morons.
Depression or not, I wish I would let these assholes, like ",bobs ????"run me off any site. Tell them to kiss your pretty black ass.
I always do!
C.B.:saevil:
 
No ,Miki !

You have to say it right! KISS MY NATURAL BLACK, BROWN,TAN,CREAM ( fill in the blank) ASS! LOL! :biggrin1:
 
Hell! Ya couldn't leave now! Not with everybody saying all these nice things about you! Of course, if you stay, they'll go back to be being their old, sarcastic selves...which is why ya gotta love 'em all, no?
 
NJ! You best not go anywhere, I absolutely love reading your replies to threads. You say things that quite a few people would love to say but don't have the sac to do so. Granted you don't have a sac, which sets you aside from Eddie Murphy! (Just wanted to point out that was a joke before I get flamed for it.)

I wish there were more folks who were brutally honest in this world and we wouldn't have so many people pretending to be adults coming to the table with more games than Parker Brothers.
 
All part of being on the net nj, take the good, ignore the bad.

Surprisingly I'm not very often attacked here so I find I can be rather more mellow than I've previously been on chat sites, I can be a real nasty piece of work when it's needed :)
 
Some people are jerks and need to be flogged. I'll be happy to do that for you. I need the practice.
 

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