It's nice, but can be annoying.

The Set Up

When i was in highschool i weighed probably 60 pounds more than i do now. I grew up the geeky, nerdy fat kid, (played football for a bit too so that helped me be "cool" and not fall into any pit of no cool zone... even though i was also in the chess, and math league .... lol)

But when i went to college i started my drop in weight by dieting, running, and hitting the gym. (i decided if i don't drop the weight and get fit now it'll just be harder every year from now on) The last 2-3 years (the end of college going into the "real world") i've noticed a great more deal of girls doing things and treating me completely different. Before hand if i was in public i'd be just some random guy (which i enjoyed... i like my privacy) but now women of all ages start taking note of me... they give me the random glance or 2... and then 3 and 4.

Yesterday i was on the train and a 40 something year old lady... stared at me.... and i don't mean she was glancing every so often, or looking at me out the corner of her eye trying to be discrete ... she was full facing me... staring at me... for an HOUR.... I would glance up and BOOM full eye to eye contact... UNWAVERING ... i quickly glance back down at my blackberry... but i can still see out of my peripheral vision ... her staring at me...

The Golden Years

Other times though it can be very complimenting and MUCH more appropriate ... like when i go out to bars and women seeemingly try to make conversations... more often than not, when i order a drink, they will try to comment on my order...

My favorite Bar moment was when 2 older women somehow included me into their convo... which i was NOT listening to... so they asked if i agreed, and i informed them i wasn't listening... so they asked how old i thought one of them were (the blond one) i said 24-26 ( i was indeed being serious)... they laughed and she said thank u, and that i was so sweet for saying that (i assume they thought i was just trying to be nice) and then they asked how old i was ... (i was 22) and they called me a baby. And i told them that i didn't believe that they were as old as they said they were, and that i didn't believe the girl was old enough to have the children she claimed she had... at which case she invited me home with her so that she can prove it to me ... i declined ( i had just gotten out of a relationship and i wanted nothing to do with women for a couple of weeks... plus i thought it would have been a much more awkward walk of shame out of a bedroom... and possibly running into 4-5 year old children asking who i was... and my friends never let me live down that i didn't taker the woman up on her offer)

3 years ago i REALLY enjoyed it cause i was a single guy in my last year of college and all of a sudden girls became MUCH more forward toward me.

girls would glance over at me, and within a few minutes they would be much closer to me ... like one time there was a game of flip cup, and the girl decided to join in the game, and put herself right next time... and would grind her rear end into my crotch in between turns. Another time my female friend at the time (who was also an occasional sex buddy, and would also be a good wing woman too) "leaned into my ear and said "there is a girl over there giving u the "sex eyes" .... low and behold my wing woman moved away, the girl came over to me, sat down, and introduced herself.... and gave very loud hints such as how she is super happy that her roommate wasn't there that weekend so she could do what ever she wanted, and how she wish she had gone to the store to buy condoms ... but "that wasn't going to stop her" .... i had no condoms on me (i wasn't expecting to go to the party until JUST before) so i decided it be best to let this probable diseased fish back into the water...

Or my absolute favorite of when i walked into a room, a girl saw me... ran over to me, took me by the hand and told me to go with her... so i did lol

The Slightly Older and Much More Stressed Out Years of Running the Office of a Small Business During this Economy

Now for example i was at panera bread for lunch. i needed a nice quiet lunch by myself to relax ...and i started getting alot of the glances from the women... one woman (nurse i believe cause she was wearing scrubs) REALLY kept looking at me... but she was far enough away for me to take it as just a big compliment . However there were 2 young girls who tried to be subtle but were not.

The girl facing toward me, glances up at me... whispers to her friend ... who just plainly turns around to look at me... they whisper more, and then start talking in a louder than needed tone that involved things such as ... how they were 18 and felt that the people they knew, and the guys they knew were much too immature for them. After that 20 minute boring and annoying convo, she paused... whispered... the girl turned around again to look at me for whatever reason... (maybe wondering if had sprouted a tennis racket from my head) whispered again, and then talked about topics involving drunken escapades and how they liked being "told" by guys that they were their girls for the night...

I dont know, maybe my personality is just not suited for these types of things anymore.... some days it's complimenting ... other days it's just plain annoying...

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