For those that don't know, which would be all of you, I have a girlfriend right now whose previous boyfriend was an amazing lover.
Now, being the kind of person that I am, I assumed that by amazing lover she meant, "huge cock." So I've been dreading this guy for the past year or so. I've built up a whole mythology about this guy and his cock. His cock was fucking Jesus, Zeus, Apollo and Allah all rolled into one gigantic cock. Just thinking of how big his cock must have been made me feel ridiculously insecure. "How big could it have been?" I thought. "12 inches?! 15 inches!? Dear God, how can I ever compare!" These thoughts were always in the back of mind whenever I talked with her. But, recently, during one of our conversations about sex, she brought him up and told me some information that changed everything.
She started off as she usually did, saying that he was a jerk but very good at sex. I said, "he was very big wasn't he?" After this she replied in a very unexpected way. She said, very casually, "Oh, not that large. About average." I was stunned. I had thought that the kind of praise that she heaped on him could only be attained by a guy with a true monster cock. I would never have guessed that an average sized guy could give a woman an enjoyable sexual experience, let alone give her incredible sex.
Needless to say, this news was like a breath of fresh air to me. Not only was I not as significantly smaller than her last lover, but if I just improved my technique I could giver her the same mind blowing sex as him. This was a huge weight off my mind.
For me, being small means that I can never truly satisfy my lover sexually. It's this fear that has led to me to ignore women and end relationships prematurely. To hear that this fear was unfounded and that I still had a chance to satisfy my lover was really invigorating and made me so happy that I felt like sharing the news with all of you.
Now, being the kind of person that I am, I assumed that by amazing lover she meant, "huge cock." So I've been dreading this guy for the past year or so. I've built up a whole mythology about this guy and his cock. His cock was fucking Jesus, Zeus, Apollo and Allah all rolled into one gigantic cock. Just thinking of how big his cock must have been made me feel ridiculously insecure. "How big could it have been?" I thought. "12 inches?! 15 inches!? Dear God, how can I ever compare!" These thoughts were always in the back of mind whenever I talked with her. But, recently, during one of our conversations about sex, she brought him up and told me some information that changed everything.
She started off as she usually did, saying that he was a jerk but very good at sex. I said, "he was very big wasn't he?" After this she replied in a very unexpected way. She said, very casually, "Oh, not that large. About average." I was stunned. I had thought that the kind of praise that she heaped on him could only be attained by a guy with a true monster cock. I would never have guessed that an average sized guy could give a woman an enjoyable sexual experience, let alone give her incredible sex.
Needless to say, this news was like a breath of fresh air to me. Not only was I not as significantly smaller than her last lover, but if I just improved my technique I could giver her the same mind blowing sex as him. This was a huge weight off my mind.
For me, being small means that I can never truly satisfy my lover sexually. It's this fear that has led to me to ignore women and end relationships prematurely. To hear that this fear was unfounded and that I still had a chance to satisfy my lover was really invigorating and made me so happy that I felt like sharing the news with all of you.