It's not a big cock!!!!

For those that don't know, which would be all of you, I have a girlfriend right now whose previous boyfriend was an amazing lover.

Now, being the kind of person that I am, I assumed that by amazing lover she meant, "huge cock." So I've been dreading this guy for the past year or so. I've built up a whole mythology about this guy and his cock. His cock was fucking Jesus, Zeus, Apollo and Allah all rolled into one gigantic cock. Just thinking of how big his cock must have been made me feel ridiculously insecure. "How big could it have been?" I thought. "12 inches?! 15 inches!? Dear God, how can I ever compare!" These thoughts were always in the back of mind whenever I talked with her. But, recently, during one of our conversations about sex, she brought him up and told me some information that changed everything.

She started off as she usually did, saying that he was a jerk but very good at sex. I said, "he was very big wasn't he?" After this she replied in a very unexpected way. She said, very casually, "Oh, not that large. About average." I was stunned. I had thought that the kind of praise that she heaped on him could only be attained by a guy with a true monster cock. I would never have guessed that an average sized guy could give a woman an enjoyable sexual experience, let alone give her incredible sex.

Needless to say, this news was like a breath of fresh air to me. Not only was I not as significantly smaller than her last lover, but if I just improved my technique I could giver her the same mind blowing sex as him. This was a huge weight off my mind.

For me, being small means that I can never truly satisfy my lover sexually. It's this fear that has led to me to ignore women and end relationships prematurely. To hear that this fear was unfounded and that I still had a chance to satisfy my lover was really invigorating and made me so happy that I felt like sharing the news with all of you.
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What, you'd never heard that old expression, "It's not the size of the wand but the magic it makes?" Or just never believed it?

Regardless, it's a lesson we'd all do well to internalize.
 
but if I just improved my technique I could giver her the same mind blowing sex as him.

Actually, work on technique - and communication skills and give her better sex.

Took you a "year or so" to find out why he was so good
Because you were afraid to ask
You made an incorrect assumption

Thanks for sharing
If you start a thread - more people will see it than here in the blogs.
Many need to see it
Unfortunately, few will heed it
 
this site really messes with people in regards to the way they feel about their penis. being a good lay is way more then having a big one.
 
Wow, I'm surprised so many people have responded to this. I wrote this when I was a bit drunk and just wanted to get something off my chest.

In response to Pitbull; it has taken me so long to find out about the size of this guys cock mainly because my GF doesn't like to talk about him. If I bring him up during a conversation, she gets mad and changes the subject. Even yesterday when we talked about him, she told me a little bit about him and then quickly changed the subject. If she was more open about her relationship with him, I would have known a long time ago.
 
Interesting blog wally. I see contrasting views with the topic I replied too. I think this is all very true - and I also share your views on "if my girl was more open about previous relationships". Lay it on the table and I can move on.
 
Get the book "The Sensuous Man." It's a classic. Was a big best seller yearrrrrrs ago (like the 70's). But it's all about giving a woman pleasure no matter what size you are. In other words, working on your technique.
 

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