Jerk off buddy

Today for the second time ever I met up with this guy that I met in HS. Last time we jo together we watched porn. This time he asked me if I needed the porn and said he didn't so I told him we could give it a try without at it and quite frankly I was rock hard already. As soon as he took off his clothes and his fat cock was exposed I felt the need to suck it good but as we kept on doing stuff I lost more and more interest until the point that he came and I didn't. Now I am very confused I thought this was really what I wanted. Watching porn of 'straight' guys jo and sucking each other really turn me on but the real deal is not as appealing anymore. I honestly think that porn has fucked up my mind completely...

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Cut back on the porn maybe. I was watching too much and the only time I ever jerked off was when I was watching it. I think my brain retrained itself because then when I was with a guy I really wasn't all that interested. Luckily I realized it must have been too much porn and masturbation because once I'd cut back and stopped masturbating only while watching porn I found that I was back to my usual self.
 
Thanks for you replies I am going to try jacking off without porn but I am sure its gonna be hard
 
latin_cock;bt32455 said:
Thanks for you replies I am going to try jacking off without porn but I am sure its gonna be hard

Isn't it easier when it's 'hard'? :biggrin1:
 
Just my 2 cents, because I play with str8 guys too, and I'm gay. Sometimes they really do need to be watching the porn even if they say they don't. It's totally cool to get off on the porn and the dude you're with at the same time. Maybe he doesn't need it, but you do, so watch it for you.
 
I agree with all the advice above. Sometimes I can get more excited by porn than with a guy, and I might go soft if I feel he is expecting certain things from me.

Porn demands nothing of me so I can stay hard with it. Let him know that you don't want to be rude, but you feel more confident/comfortable with porn and tell him you want to see what might happen, but not to expect too much since you are only just exploring your sexuality. If he is cool he will help you relax. Try not to take things too fast and stay within your limits.

Also when you are alone, try watching a bit less porn, either masturbate less or just masturbate using your imagination and pay attention to how your body feels in your hands. Imagine what you would like to be doing or who you would like to be with. It could be a girl or a guy or both. Don't worry about your fantasies, everything is cool in fantasyland. Take care and don't stress.

Best wishes.
 

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