Love to Death....

So it was brought up in chat a few days ago where I was talking about how I would kill myself if my friend died. I got the usual "omg don't do it, and leave him" responses. Anyhow... I was speaking to my supervisor today and she suggest writing him a hand written letter depicting how much I'd loose without him being around.

I think I'd still end up putting myself out of misery.... anyhow...

Here is a pic of us at my graduation...

I heart you brand.

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He's very cute and I think writing him a letter is a good idea, if you tell him you're going to get muddled and forget something important you want to tell him, if you write it down you can add in anything you think is important before you give it to him and a letter is much harder to ignore than a conversation, it's down in black and white and he can't manage to forget the bits that he didn't want to hear.
 
You know, I really hate suicide. When someone you love does it its like your heart was just opened up to a vacuum.

What little I can offer goes out to you. When I think of the things people do, I always and ultimately come to the conclusion that my only choice, my only real choice, is to try harder and do better. Its hard. Really hard, but what other choice have you got?

We can make things better, or we can make them worse.
 
Kink, is your friend ill ... is there any reason to be thinking of the possibility of his dying?
Maybe you've been talking about this before and I've just missed the posts.
 
I think the letter is a good idea. It wasn't until my mother was on her death bed that I told her just how wonderful she was, what she meant to me, and how lost I would be after her passing.

It's human nature that we can very easily and quickly tell someone all the negative we see or feel, but it's harder to get the good stuff out.

And like Rubi, I hope your friend is OK and you aren't in danger of losing him.
 
If you really think your friend is contemplating suicide, you must contact someone who can help. There are suicide help lines in most cities...if you can't find one, PM me and I'll try to find one for you. You can talk to them and they will help. They are discrete, confidential and very, very good at what they do. That is the best help you can be!
 
How is someone expressing their deeper feelings in the open ridiculous? I don't understand your emotion on this matter tripod.
 
He's addicted to drugs... ecstacy, cocaine, Special K, pot and alcohol. He does them all at the same time. He is most likely going to die...

Thanks for voicing your stupid opinion Tripod.... means tons to me.

xx
 
TK, has anyone tried an intervention program to get him some help? He needs it NOW before it's too late and you end up hating yourself and feeling guilty. Please...get him some help!
 
Most interventions fail.

Think_Kink. I had a good friend of mine die of a cocaine overdose.... god knows what else he snorted/injected etc that day..

Point is....


I'm around if you need to talk to a complete stranger.
 
TK, I know how difficult it must be for you. Just follow that part of your nick! qnd THINK... of your future and people who care about YOU, too. Do what you can for him, be supportive, be a friend, but don't own his illness/problems yourself.
Take care Tinky. :hug:
 

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