LPSG Warning

Yesterday I received a warning from one of the administrators that I had violated policy by stating my son's penis sizes. I find it sad that a site about penis size finds it inappropriate or offensive to write about the relationship of a body part within a family.

My wife and I take great pride in the fact we have raised three well adjusted kids who are comfortable in their own skin and openly inquire and talk about what's going on in their lives, as well as their bodies.

When I received this warning it hit me like a ton of bricks. My wife and I detest adults who sexually abuse or otherwise take advantage of their kids. If I had done something disgusting with my kids and shared it, I could understand the warning. I guess I am naive in thinking statistics are in a different category than sexual activities.

I decided to write this in case one day I am blocked, so you know what happened. I guess I will also move forward on this site to present myself as childless so I don't slip and say something else they will deem inappropriate.

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@Hanging6x6 when I first read this I also thought the same as you in that what was the harm, but I guess I can also see their side now after considering it. Although it meant nothing for you to share and it was innocent, there could be people who get off on thinking about the real information you provided. Don’t stress on it too much, we all know you meant nothing by it.
 
It!s sad our society is so puritanical about penises. If you have a clean healthy mind, there is nothing disgusting about it.
 
Society makes men’s penises out to be something dirty. It’s a body part just like all the rest of them. There should be no shame in discussing things like this. My sons brought it up to me because they are comfortable discussing it.
 
This is a very complex subject that can be seen from many sides:

1. Pedophiles with their sick minds, will look at this and yes, do whatever they do. However, I would asume this will happen, on their end, and with anything, not just with what's said here.

2. Which brings the US Society, or any other society where nudity and penises and nipples are a big deal. If we don't talk about these things, the body will never be normalized and there will always be an issue and we will never be able to eradicate pedophilia, or at least identify it as it's hidden from view.

3. And because of being covered, people are being hurt, and so, those who believe talking about penises is different than talking about nose or body hair may have been hurt somehow. Or maybe they know something we don't know. See, you also mentioned body hair of your son, I guess that was not the issue. Why does it has to be different?

4. Healthy talk can be made without any sexual context about many things, including penises. I think this is one of the wonders of this site;
another, whole different thing is to suggest or promote pedophilia. This is sick, disgusting and there are not enough words in any language to properly describe how terrible it is. However, I myself never even saw it as a sexual thing but more as a normal talks... genetics, etc.
I guess I am on the naive side.

So, the fine line is between those who notice anything under 18 to be pedophilia talk no matter what is the topic involved, and those who clearly have a naive and clean mind, and just talk about it. I guess one side always win.
 
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I am proud my sons have healthy minds and view their bodies in a healthy way. I hope they will carry it forward. I guess my preference is to remain naive rather than sinking to the level of thinking a penis is something dirty that shouldn’t be talked about. Kids are inquisitive and respect honesty.
 
I understand that people who have been hurt or that are sick, would think this is a bad thing.
However, In my view.. your post was not different than say: "He's got my eyes, or my nose, or my back or my feet". If we're going through the world thinking everyone is bad, then you should watch out for organ traffickers. We probably shouldn't have sex because of STDs. Everyone may be racist, etc. It's all about the context. CONTEXT. What happens in the mind of each one of us on our end, is another story - its seriously worrysome apparently, but... context.
 
I understand that websites need rules. I have seen other dads here comment on their kids. What surprised me was the statistical information I shared was deemed inappropriate. If I had referenced that I had some incestuous interaction with a child I totally get how that is wrong and needs to be banned. So my naive side just assumes innocent things are OK to discuss. Now I know they are not. It simply caught me off guard how other people view things my family sees as healthy conversation.
 
I see your point and do agree with it but I also understand the need to have rules that are intended to combat users with malicious intents, even at the expense of non-malicious users.

I got a warning once for talking about my own penis because I referenced my own age at the time a certain incident took place. That was even weirder.
 
Thanks for your message. I understand their reasoning. I think for you or I who don’t have the malicious intent it just seems odd, but I get it.
 
I do not think it is appropriate you decided to post this here.

What you don't understand is that we can not allow any discussion of minors for a very important reason... it risks putting us out of business. We rely on banking relationships to survive as a business. As an adult site, the banks are very clear that an adult site can not have any discussion or any topics involving kids. It is that simple.
 
@Mr. LPSG completely agree, but in the case of hanging6x6 where it was obvious that there was no ulterior reason to post, rather than a warning if he had the reply like you gave above then, he would probably been happier as receiving a warning does make you feel like you have done something wrong. Where there is an obvious intent to make it about kids then agree, in fact would be better for them just to be kicked out. I also see the positive in that it provoked a discussion here about it and not one person has said it was wrong, but more of an education about how the naivety of it can feed those who were after it for the wrong reasons.
 
Now it makes a lot more sense. I guess this is the info we didn't know. We have a saying in Spanish that goes: "Hablando, la gente se entiende". For us it would be: by communicating, people are able to understand each other. We now understand! Thanks @Mr. LPSG.
 
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