Male Virgin = Bad Thing?

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Now, of course I lost my virginity a month ago, and my friends know now too. One of these people that found out through friends that told was a girl that I am friends with, but she is also someone who I liked last year. We seemed to click well, but she didn't give me a chance at all, which was like a "woah, ok, wtf" kinda moment for me.

Fast-forward to now, she told me that she knows I'm not a virgin anymore, and that me being one was a big reason why she didn't want to be with me. To me, that seems kind of weird because I always had my other female friends saying that me being one was a good thing so now I'm not sure what is good and what isn't. I honestly don't know what to think about this because to me it seems idiotic to not want a guy who would rather try to be with 1 woman and not a guy who's been all over the place.

I guess it's an experience thing as well? but then again she could have always taught me. Just wanted to post this here and see what others think.

Anyways, back to my busy life!

P.S: Still haven't had sex in that month span since losing it. UGH! lol

Comments

I guess every girl is different; I didn't loose mine until I after high school and girls thought of me being a virgin as a challenge to see who could get me to break first (two girls were actually having a contest that I know of)...many other girls i've spoken with about it said it was cool that I waited but there were those girls who thought I was crazy.

oh yeah, both of those girls lost. lol
 
How old is this girl? She sounds young and immature.

What a double standard for her to say that.... unless she things virgin girls are frowned upon as well.

Personally I think you should listen to your "other female friends".
 
I can understand her keeping her distance if she knew you were a virgin. She may actually really like you and thinks you're LTR material, so she doesn't want to get involved with you if she's your first.
It's not a skills thing; she's probably not worried about the sex being bad or anything like that. More likely she doesn't want you to get attached and make the relationship all about sex, then later on start to drift away because you want to try sleeping with other people.
 
thanks for the comments i really do appreciate it.

I agree tho that it just seems weird that when a guy wants to wait that he's seen as crazy, but i guess guys have paved the way for women to think like that so can't blame them for having an outlook like that.

i may be a year or 2 older that's bout it. it seems like my friend that is friends with both of us says that she always speaks of me in a nice way when women are talking in that i am a good guy, nice guy. i just guess i'm not the kinda guy she wants. i don't know what she wants, but i know i'm getting too old to worry about this anymore so i just gotta leave it, be friends, and that's it. also, she said she didn't want me to be sprung on her after my first time either :/. the world's crazy...smdh lol
 

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