Mass Debation: Flyin' Solo or Sweet with Sidekicks?

Wankers, jerk offs, tossers. The irony of hatefully calling a man out on his favourite past-time sure as hell ain't lost on me. Go 'head. Call me a wanker. I am. So are you.

ThatFellaUK: Self-love. Since 1999.

But do you burn the bridges of lines crossed by runnin' the idea of "whipping it out" in front of a mate?

I'm straight. I'm not bi or gay. I'm cool with that. I don't have romantic or sexual desires for guys. But my open attitude to male camaraderie-building shared jerking sessions would have some reaching for the nearest fad term for 'queer'.

It's gratifying, for sure. There's porn involved; that's hot. But it's that male bonding shit, that shared experience with your buddies and havin' a laugh afterward about stray cumshots and stupid things like that.

Clearly, I'm not hung up about other dudes seeing me naked. I'll happily join in a male-dominated threesome, foursome or moresome and think nothing of it.

Acceptance of the whole self-indulgence-with-others-present situation varies from culture to culture and indeed, across individuals.

So what say you, you horny bastards?

On the debate of masturbation, where do you stand?

Comments

Having a wank with another man or other men wanking at the same time is no big deal. We all have a cock, we all wank, its just another form of bonding.
 
hey we joined the wanking club the same year lol.
i like and really want to believe it can be done, but unfortunately its society that scares us dudes to drop n toss together.
as a str8 guy, this ''gay'' theme can impair an image.
i really wish it didnt coz i too really just want to explore this without being judged by people that shouldnt really be giving a fuk bout wat i do.
 
Some men do not grow up with an openness to nudity and wanking and it is something new to adjust to. I met some Latin brothers and their cousins and they said they always wank to pornos with each other and they laughed about how many times certain persons did it. It can be healthy for sure, with the right people.
 
Wow...very open minded on the matter. I guess it really depends on how you approach the guys with the idea. I walked into the chapter house of my fraternity many years ago and found the majority of them in various states watching a porn and commenting about boa contrictor man.
 
Hey man
This is a very interesting blog. I think the basic problem is definititions. We guys are schooled by society to define ourselves as 'straight', 'gay' or 'bi', which forces us to fit our desires/urges into strict categories. I have learned trough experience that there are many, many shades and variations to male sexuality that can't be fitted into neat categories.

For example, look at the range of guys who post on here - many 'identify' as 90% or 100% 'straight' yet there is an obvious turn-on for them in showing off their dicks, sometimes in wank-vids, to other guys. Coincidentally, I wrote about this in my blog entry "Do you like my dick?".

If you have had a 'wank bud',as I have had, there can be an anxiety about where the boundaries lie - is it strictly 'look, don't touch'? Or can I reach over and 'help him out'? And if he likes that, could I/should I go further and suck him? And, if I do, does that make me 'gay' or 'bi', and will I be judged for that?

I don't have the answers to any of this. I guess we just have to find our way through.

On here, I say I'm 50/50 but to be honest I don't really know how to quantify sexuality. I like girls but I also like guys' bodies too, in certain circumstances.

I noticed you wrote this in 2012 and said you are 'straight', but in your profile you say 50/50, like me. Is that how you see yourself today?

Mickey
;)
 
Wish there was more open minded guys like you. Yes I’m gay, but I also enjoy being naked around other guys and love them to feel comfortable naked around me. A bit of Male bonding and jerking off together doesn’t have to be about sexuality, just a fun,liberating experience between mates.
 
I like to wank but sometimes I toss myself off.
When I was younger I'd have cock games with mates and we'd form a circle and wank, each doing his own wanking, nice sight, loved it. I did get to toss one of the guys off, the one with the biggest thickest cock, but only did him the once.
Jerking off sounds painful, maybe I jack off when I sit on a butt plug?
 

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