Why is it women get so damn hung up over sex? Sex seems to be the one area of my life which I am destined to be unfulfilled. Every relationship I learn more and more, yet I am less and less happy with it. At one time I could cum five or six times a session and still want more. When I first got married I tried the once in the morning and once at night and the wife said I wanted it too much. We divorced over this basically then when we remarried a few years later, I ended up sleeping on the couch for half of the four years we were together because again, I wanted it too much. So we ended up getting divorced again.
My wife now and I got together in 1999, she basically chased me and got me into bed. While we were dating she would come over to my house at 4 in the morning and sometimes we would make love and sometimes just cuddle. We would make love a couple of times a week and then about a month after we got married she went through her change of life.... Sex stopped basically. In the 14 years we have been together, we have gone as long as about 14-18 months without.
Last year, we agreed to try once a month, but of course that has crapped out to maybe every other month and of course it is 15 minutes start to finish. I go down on her, I get her to cum then I get in and cum and we are done.
Of course, physical contact with her is much better than masturbation.
My wife has a history. I know she has been with lots of men. She has had sex with lots of men. How she never caught anything is a tribute to her being picky in who she was with.
I have come to rationalize her lack of interest is just due to her being used up and just not excited about sex anymore. My problem is that I am now at a point where I am much more confident in what I want and my ability to deliver.
The question now is do I stay with this or go on? That is what I am pondering on a daily basis.
My wife now and I got together in 1999, she basically chased me and got me into bed. While we were dating she would come over to my house at 4 in the morning and sometimes we would make love and sometimes just cuddle. We would make love a couple of times a week and then about a month after we got married she went through her change of life.... Sex stopped basically. In the 14 years we have been together, we have gone as long as about 14-18 months without.
Last year, we agreed to try once a month, but of course that has crapped out to maybe every other month and of course it is 15 minutes start to finish. I go down on her, I get her to cum then I get in and cum and we are done.
Of course, physical contact with her is much better than masturbation.
My wife has a history. I know she has been with lots of men. She has had sex with lots of men. How she never caught anything is a tribute to her being picky in who she was with.
I have come to rationalize her lack of interest is just due to her being used up and just not excited about sex anymore. My problem is that I am now at a point where I am much more confident in what I want and my ability to deliver.
The question now is do I stay with this or go on? That is what I am pondering on a daily basis.