MY biggest Turns Ons and Offs, But what are yours?? ;D

MY biggest Turns Ons and Offs, But what are yours?? ;D

mine :


Turn ONS:


True Love and being loved, kindness compassion, sweetness, adorableness, cuteness

POSITIVITY...is a biggie... I struggle with positivity myself sometimes, but i understand the extreme importance of it, and trying to aim for it.

Generosity!

Expressive eyes :p:heart_eyes:

Nice creative makeup skills or just creativity in general really. Cute fashion sense

Kindness to animals!

Keeping reasonably clean

Being reasonably health conscious.

Sexy public stuff, being watched by an audience (but ONLY an audience that wants to see!!), being in an outdoors Forrest /camping porn etc. Having people see and appreciate my stuff online! Knowing people all over the world are touching themselves to me. love it. share the love!

cute cosplays and fantasies

-nudism, outdoor stuff when the weather is amazing, back to nature attitude.

openness, consideration, and spirituality.

sociability and fun and a cute sense of humor

an attitude of continuous self improvement

-genuine smiling

honesty and trustworthiness

Making an effort in understanding other people who are different in some way, even if you dont agree with their ideas, being polite and kind to them.

CUTE LINGERIE and stuff like that


Turn OFFs:


People always blaming others rather than trying to improve themselves. Not being able to laugh at themselves or seeing the funny side of things.

Bad boys, mean girls or any other kind of drama addicted Kweenz or divas.

Negativity, spite, hate, grudges, any kind of negative group politics, in fact politics itself seems a mostly negative sport from what i have seen. The less Im concerned about it the happier I am.

STDs or sights that look similar.

people who arent genuine, and try to "game" other people in dating, rather than trying to make a deep authentic connection...

“relationship chess attitude”

this all seems to fall under manipulation and being misleading. Always just be yourself but always be working on being a better version of yourself by self refection and fixing and improving things.

constant gossiping and extreme sassyness, constantly and overly judgmental

-no effort to maintain or improve health and fitness

-heavy bdsm, torture and stuff of that nature, just not my thing.

-"sounding"

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Ok thats all I Can think of right now, let hear yours!

and given that list what things do you think i might be into that i haven't thought of in the list?? id love to know your ideas!


You dont need all of the turns ons for me to be attracted to you. The turn offs are fairly non negotiable tho lol. Its kinda hard to come back from some of those.

Comments

Love that you have such a good list of each!

Where do you stand on hookups and random sex? If a turn on is true love, where does primal lust fit in?

Asking for a friend, lol
 
not quite sure to be honest, cos i dont really understand the situation with disease...
people telling me cos of corona its a no go. the hookup scene has been busted.
people telling me its gonna stay that way for a whole while, and people are getting frustrated that they cant do their favorite hobby anymore.

with disease out of the picture, id say true love is a turn on but not my only one,
like id be happy to do a porn scene with someone if i liked and respected them as a friend, or coworker,

if i despised them i probably couldnt do it tho, much less work with them well to make something amazing.
 
Can't really argue with that list, dude. I'd add 'erotic imagination' to turn-ons. I think you can tell some guys on here have that quality by the way they present their dicks. Lack of inhibition in sex can be a real turn on too, and by that I mean a guy or girl who is confident in their own sexuality and is not afraid to express it.

Turn offs would have to include game-players/time-wasters/people who get off on manipulating and deceiving others for their own amusement.

And a particular turn off for me is a complete lack of hair around the cock of a post-pubescent male.
 
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@Wine0 - yes dude, of course. I do that myself. And I like shaved balls, particularly when I'm licking /sucking on them. But I honestly think most guys look better with some hair at the base of their cock. It's just the bald look that turns me off.
 
@Hugh_Mungus sensible answer, but one day, you might meet someone that will surprise you how much in lust you will be. Just the matching of sheer sexual energy will turn you both on so much. Happened to me nearly a year ago and the situation wasn’t right for a long term thing, but oh my, it was amazing and I know we both think about each other regularly.
 

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