MY biggest Turns Ons and Offs, But what are yours?? ;D
mine :
Turn ONS:
True Love and being loved, kindness compassion, sweetness, adorableness, cuteness
POSITIVITY...is a biggie... I struggle with positivity myself sometimes, but i understand the extreme importance of it, and trying to aim for it.
Generosity!
Expressive eyes

Nice creative makeup skills or just creativity in general really. Cute fashion sense
Kindness to animals!
Keeping reasonably clean
Being reasonably health conscious.
Sexy public stuff, being watched by an audience (but ONLY an audience that wants to see!!), being in an outdoors Forrest /camping porn etc. Having people see and appreciate my stuff online! Knowing people all over the world are touching themselves to me. love it. share the love!
cute cosplays and fantasies
-nudism, outdoor stuff when the weather is amazing, back to nature attitude.
openness, consideration, and spirituality.
sociability and fun and a cute sense of humor
an attitude of continuous self improvement
-genuine smiling
honesty and trustworthiness
Making an effort in understanding other people who are different in some way, even if you dont agree with their ideas, being polite and kind to them.
CUTE LINGERIE and stuff like that
Turn OFFs:
People always blaming others rather than trying to improve themselves. Not being able to laugh at themselves or seeing the funny side of things.
Bad boys, mean girls or any other kind of drama addicted Kweenz or divas.
Negativity, spite, hate, grudges, any kind of negative group politics, in fact politics itself seems a mostly negative sport from what i have seen. The less Im concerned about it the happier I am.
STDs or sights that look similar.
people who arent genuine, and try to "game" other people in dating, rather than trying to make a deep authentic connection...
“relationship chess attitude”
this all seems to fall under manipulation and being misleading. Always just be yourself but always be working on being a better version of yourself by self refection and fixing and improving things.
constant gossiping and extreme sassyness, constantly and overly judgmental
-no effort to maintain or improve health and fitness
-heavy bdsm, torture and stuff of that nature, just not my thing.
-"sounding"
Ok thats all I Can think of right now, let hear yours!
and given that list what things do you think i might be into that i haven't thought of in the list?? id love to know your ideas!
You dont need all of the turns ons for me to be attracted to you. The turn offs are fairly non negotiable tho lol. Its kinda hard to come back from some of those.
mine :
Turn ONS:
True Love and being loved, kindness compassion, sweetness, adorableness, cuteness
POSITIVITY...is a biggie... I struggle with positivity myself sometimes, but i understand the extreme importance of it, and trying to aim for it.
Generosity!
Expressive eyes
Nice creative makeup skills or just creativity in general really. Cute fashion sense
Kindness to animals!
Keeping reasonably clean
Being reasonably health conscious.
Sexy public stuff, being watched by an audience (but ONLY an audience that wants to see!!), being in an outdoors Forrest /camping porn etc. Having people see and appreciate my stuff online! Knowing people all over the world are touching themselves to me. love it. share the love!
cute cosplays and fantasies
-nudism, outdoor stuff when the weather is amazing, back to nature attitude.
openness, consideration, and spirituality.
sociability and fun and a cute sense of humor
an attitude of continuous self improvement
-genuine smiling
honesty and trustworthiness
Making an effort in understanding other people who are different in some way, even if you dont agree with their ideas, being polite and kind to them.
CUTE LINGERIE and stuff like that
Turn OFFs:
People always blaming others rather than trying to improve themselves. Not being able to laugh at themselves or seeing the funny side of things.
Bad boys, mean girls or any other kind of drama addicted Kweenz or divas.
Negativity, spite, hate, grudges, any kind of negative group politics, in fact politics itself seems a mostly negative sport from what i have seen. The less Im concerned about it the happier I am.
STDs or sights that look similar.
people who arent genuine, and try to "game" other people in dating, rather than trying to make a deep authentic connection...
“relationship chess attitude”
this all seems to fall under manipulation and being misleading. Always just be yourself but always be working on being a better version of yourself by self refection and fixing and improving things.
constant gossiping and extreme sassyness, constantly and overly judgmental
-no effort to maintain or improve health and fitness
-heavy bdsm, torture and stuff of that nature, just not my thing.
-"sounding"
Ok thats all I Can think of right now, let hear yours!
and given that list what things do you think i might be into that i haven't thought of in the list?? id love to know your ideas!
You dont need all of the turns ons for me to be attracted to you. The turn offs are fairly non negotiable tho lol. Its kinda hard to come back from some of those.