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My dream guy.

I've been trying to narrow it down for a long time. Ya know, what it is exactly that I want/need in a guy. I still don't know if I have it figured out. I have a list a mile long of what my dream guy would be. Of what it is that I want. But it's gotten to the point where I'm beginning to wonder if I'm asking too much. I've always been told not to settle, but I've also been told that I can't be too picky. Where's the line, exactly? How do I know if I'm asking too much? Do I REALLY need a guy who will do all the little romantic gestures that I adore, or will having a guy around who just supports and loves me be enough? Do I REALLY need a guy who's handy around the house, or will having someone with a wallet big enough to pay for all of the repairs be enough? I don't even know why I'm talking about this. I just felt like I needed to get some things off my chest, and this is what was on my mind at that moment. Ultimately, I want a guy who loves me. I want a guy who wants me. I want a guy who smiles when I walk into a room. I want a guy who will rub my feet after a long day. I want a guy who gets me... someone who really understands where I'm coming from. I want a guy who will hold me when I'm crying and wipe my tears away. I want a guy who gives me forehead kisses (they're my favorite). I want a guy who truly understands the importance of honesty. I want a guy who can tell me how he's feeling. I want a guy who isn't afraid to admit when he's wrong. I want a guy who respects my need for space (as I will respect his). I want a guy who will come up behind me while I'm standing at the sink doing dishes and give me a hug and tell me that I'm beautiful. I want a guy who will kiss me in the rain. I want a guy who will be good to my son. I want a guy who will teach my son new things, and be there for him. I want a guy who will go to my sons football games and hoot and holler as loud as he can. I want a guy who can laugh at himself. I want a guy who can hold his own in an intellectual debate. I want a handyman. Nothing is sexier to me than a guy who can fix things. Whether it's cars, electronics, or household things... I just want a guy who can fix stuff. I want a guy who cleans up after himself. I want a guy that isn't afraid of the washer and dryer. I want a guy who will sit on the couch with me for 10 hours on a Sunday and watch football. I want a guy who likes to grill. I want a guy who understands that sex is more than just the physical. I want a guy who will take the time to kiss every inch of my naked body. I want a guy who will consult me before spending $2500 on a 55" television. I want a guy who can make me laugh. I want a guy that smiles a lot. I want a guy with a good work ethic. I want a guy that isn't too shy to carry on a conversation with my friends. I want a guy who will hold me during scary movies. I want a guy who will cuddle with me after sex. I want a guy who will have pillow talk with me. I want a guy who will bring me breakfast in bed once in a while just because he can. I want a guy who can cuddle with me without fondling me at the same time. I want a guy who supports my dreams.

I want that guy. I NEED that guy. I just hope he exists.

Comments

gavoni
I think your blogs are very deep. Heartfelt, but sometimes sad. Haven't we all been there before?
I truly hope you find the right guy eventually, But it vould take more than one time you know.
You look pretty young...or is that pretty and young!
Happiness starts within...love yourself and have the best time you can - always. Others will be drawn to you since this can be a very drab worls.
Peace and love.
 
Principessa
Assuming the man you want isn't a mythical animal like a unicorn... make sure he has a brother for me.
 
Osiris
Meg, you know how much I love you and I am sure that karma has someone out thre who is truly special.

And make sure the brother is straight. NJQT needs her perfect man as well. She too is due a karmic payoff and he will be magnificent.
 
B
Its the connect you get from being in love that inspires those things in a person because I could easily see myself doing those things for the right girl but it would have to be the RIGHT girl ya know? And I havent had a lot of relationships and I can really feel sometimes that I should just find someone because I want a nice young cute girl to hold me and do all those same things but I know it wouldnt be good becuase I wouldnt love this person. Maybe I'd really like her but would honestly just be using her. People commit degrees of this same act all the time.

But when you find the right person it all seems to come together in your heart and its all very simple how you want to treat them. You should be picky but make sure your requirements are really the right ones because sometimes you fall in love with who you fall in love with and it just happens.
 
nicenycdick
You don't want a man! You want a woman! LOL...just kidding. It sounds to me that you just want a good person. They are around...some are even men. Be open to them...trust that they exist. You will find him.
 
Principessa
Nicenycdick: You don't want a man! You want a woman! LOL...just kidding. It sounds to me that you just want a good person. They are around...some are even men. Be open to them...trust that they exist. You will find him.

Actually, it's been my experience that the great person she desires is a gay man.
 
nicenycdick
NJ! You all want us to be in touch with our feminine side...but they when we are, you call us gay! Jeez! A guy can't win!
 
lemont77
It doesn't have to be a gay man. And it's not feminine, or sensitive...Real men don't care what others think, just what the women we love think. We're all looking for someone to point us in the right direction, to be the "North" of our compass.

It will happen...in time.
 

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