My Journey From Virgin to Slut

All through my childhood years I was a shy kid. I didn't really date anyone in middle school or high school due to shyness. As I have shared before that changed quickly when I left home and went off to college. After posing nude for art classes at my school I realized people were attracted to me and that gave me confidence. I lost my virginity to a female one day and a male the next day.

Once I had a taste of sex my appetite for it grew. Suddenly I had a hunger I must have completely repressed up to that point. I guess many other students were also enjoying their freedom living away from home and I had a buffet of both sexes as eager to have sex with me as I was to have it with them. For those of you who consider yourself 100% straight or gay, I want to tell you being bisexual has been a true gift. It about doubles the pool of sex partners available to you. In other words there was never a Friday night alone for me.m

At first I kept track of who I had sex with, but I lost count. It got to a point that I would have sex with someone's friend because they had heard I was good. I honestly doubt I was any better than a bunch of other guys, but I viewed sex as entertainment and with me there were no strings attached. I was more available. I dated several people during college, but made it clear I wasn't looking for a long term relationship. My thing was random sex and I likely had a couple hundred partners, both male and female. I played safe and have never had any STDs.

During my four years of college I lived with a guy and shared his bed. We had sex most days but never were a couple. Some people found that strange but it worked for us. It was sometimes awkward for my other sex partners when they knew I was leaving their bed to go home to my roommate's bed.

For many people it is difficult to publically acknowledge being bisexual. Surprisingly, I went from shy virgin to popular bisexual slut very easily and it never occurred to me to hide it. I guess even if I had tried to hide it the secret would have been all over campus anyway due to the quantity of people I fucked.

After college I moved to a different city for a job. By then I began to think of myself more as a gay man. I quickly ended up in a relationship with a great guy named Jeremy and thankfully he shared my open attitude and we both enjoyed other partners. But I quickly found when I was working full time and devoted to my relationship that my sex activities were just a fraction of the prior four years. It took some time to adjust to fewer partners and encounters. I have a high sex drive so I was masturbating way more that I had during college. For the first time I differentiated sex and intimacy. I was different with Jeremy than I had ever been with everyone else.

How did your sex life evolve?

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My only adventures in the other camp, as they started when I was got drunk. While I took my responsibilities seriously I don't think I was ever very happy with pussy. When things changed I was confusing trying to be what my peers expected but knowing that I'd really like to be with naked guys, So Don't think I ever qualified as bi sexual. Having fathered I'd done my bit and reverted to a gay little flower.
My half bro on the other hand is like you and will fuck anything on legs, no hole was safe when he was feeling randy. For him sex was like going to the toilet, you have the urge so relieve yourself.
 
@chrisrobin
Just for the record, I am no longer the slut I was 20 years ago. I have my wife and best friend I fuck with. I would love if our society was in line with my feelings about sex as entertainment and exercise, but it isn’t so I go along with it as much as I can.
 
Most guys regardless of affiliations or peccadillos with raging testosterone are, given the chance, sex sluts. Living in a small town and reaching puberty I didn't have much chance to exercise my libido but once supply was there I was happy to take it in both hands, ends as many times a day as I could. Age is a leveller and that's when you realise that quality counts over quantity.
 
It must be a very nice journey for you. Wish everyone could experience their own sex life journey as you did.
I was also a shy guy at my younger age. But I always needed an emotional connection to the person whom I have sex.
For me my sex life was great. In past tense.
But I think I remain the shy guy. Never been a slut. But I'm not as attractive as you are.
 
Great read! I especially love the title haha, I've actually been writing a series of songs about a fictional character who goes through a very similar evolution so this was a nice coincidence and will probably end up giving me a lot of ideas/inspiration haha.

I know you've mentioned how your transition from "virgin to slut" was pretty quick, but I'm still curious about how quickly you realised people were attracted to you after becoming a nude model and what experiences you had that led you to this realisation (e.g. was it just the way the artists would look at you, was it compliments, something else maybe?)
 
@ATC2599
The first time I stood nude on the model stand I had a female student who made no attempt to hide her appreciation for my body. She was licking her lips and being seductive. I knew I was going to be in trouble so I shifted my focus to a male student and immediately felt a sexual attraction to him. Between the two of them I ended up getting a full erection while posing.word spread about that and my cock size so I am sure that helped me.

She ended up being the first girl I fucked. It happened in my dorm room, along with my roommate. The guy from class invited me to his place and I had my first gay sex the night after I lost my virginity to her.

Those two experiences gave me confidence. I don't know how it is for you but I find confidence (not cockiness) sexy as hell and I think that worked in my favor with others. So, the combination of having an above average dick size, being casually on full display in front of my fellow students and friends, and word spreading about my sexuality, I guess I seemed approachable. I got propositioned a fair amount. I know I was not the hottest guy on campus by any stretch of the imagination but I think all those young students with raging hormones who were away from home like I was made me desirable.
 

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