All through my childhood years I was a shy kid. I didn't really date anyone in middle school or high school due to shyness. As I have shared before that changed quickly when I left home and went off to college. After posing nude for art classes at my school I realized people were attracted to me and that gave me confidence. I lost my virginity to a female one day and a male the next day.
Once I had a taste of sex my appetite for it grew. Suddenly I had a hunger I must have completely repressed up to that point. I guess many other students were also enjoying their freedom living away from home and I had a buffet of both sexes as eager to have sex with me as I was to have it with them. For those of you who consider yourself 100% straight or gay, I want to tell you being bisexual has been a true gift. It about doubles the pool of sex partners available to you. In other words there was never a Friday night alone for me.m
At first I kept track of who I had sex with, but I lost count. It got to a point that I would have sex with someone's friend because they had heard I was good. I honestly doubt I was any better than a bunch of other guys, but I viewed sex as entertainment and with me there were no strings attached. I was more available. I dated several people during college, but made it clear I wasn't looking for a long term relationship. My thing was random sex and I likely had a couple hundred partners, both male and female. I played safe and have never had any STDs.
During my four years of college I lived with a guy and shared his bed. We had sex most days but never were a couple. Some people found that strange but it worked for us. It was sometimes awkward for my other sex partners when they knew I was leaving their bed to go home to my roommate's bed.
For many people it is difficult to publically acknowledge being bisexual. Surprisingly, I went from shy virgin to popular bisexual slut very easily and it never occurred to me to hide it. I guess even if I had tried to hide it the secret would have been all over campus anyway due to the quantity of people I fucked.
After college I moved to a different city for a job. By then I began to think of myself more as a gay man. I quickly ended up in a relationship with a great guy named Jeremy and thankfully he shared my open attitude and we both enjoyed other partners. But I quickly found when I was working full time and devoted to my relationship that my sex activities were just a fraction of the prior four years. It took some time to adjust to fewer partners and encounters. I have a high sex drive so I was masturbating way more that I had during college. For the first time I differentiated sex and intimacy. I was different with Jeremy than I had ever been with everyone else.
How did your sex life evolve?
Once I had a taste of sex my appetite for it grew. Suddenly I had a hunger I must have completely repressed up to that point. I guess many other students were also enjoying their freedom living away from home and I had a buffet of both sexes as eager to have sex with me as I was to have it with them. For those of you who consider yourself 100% straight or gay, I want to tell you being bisexual has been a true gift. It about doubles the pool of sex partners available to you. In other words there was never a Friday night alone for me.m
At first I kept track of who I had sex with, but I lost count. It got to a point that I would have sex with someone's friend because they had heard I was good. I honestly doubt I was any better than a bunch of other guys, but I viewed sex as entertainment and with me there were no strings attached. I was more available. I dated several people during college, but made it clear I wasn't looking for a long term relationship. My thing was random sex and I likely had a couple hundred partners, both male and female. I played safe and have never had any STDs.
During my four years of college I lived with a guy and shared his bed. We had sex most days but never were a couple. Some people found that strange but it worked for us. It was sometimes awkward for my other sex partners when they knew I was leaving their bed to go home to my roommate's bed.
For many people it is difficult to publically acknowledge being bisexual. Surprisingly, I went from shy virgin to popular bisexual slut very easily and it never occurred to me to hide it. I guess even if I had tried to hide it the secret would have been all over campus anyway due to the quantity of people I fucked.
After college I moved to a different city for a job. By then I began to think of myself more as a gay man. I quickly ended up in a relationship with a great guy named Jeremy and thankfully he shared my open attitude and we both enjoyed other partners. But I quickly found when I was working full time and devoted to my relationship that my sex activities were just a fraction of the prior four years. It took some time to adjust to fewer partners and encounters. I have a high sex drive so I was masturbating way more that I had during college. For the first time I differentiated sex and intimacy. I was different with Jeremy than I had ever been with everyone else.
How did your sex life evolve?