My Son and His Roommate

in a previous post I talked about my son and his roommate deciding to get practical and help each other out with their sexual urges at a time when they are not safely able to meet new girlfriends and have the hetero sex they both desire.

They have continued to be there for each other. Their routine has become full body massages, oral, and giving each other hand jobs. They tried anal again and this time they were both successful penetrating, but neither liked being on the receiving end so they do not plan to do it again.

My son appears to have no interest in a bisexual lifestyle but is allowing gay sex to be a part of his life at this time when it's either that or nothing. I am proud of him for being open minded about it.

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Good for your son and his room mate.

Until I was in a hetero marriage, most of my experiences were gay. I truly love my wife of 42+ years. It was about 8 years into the marriage that my desire for a gay experiences resurfaced.

My wife was aware; there was one rule. Discretion !!! And never bring home a disease. And so I only had encounters with other married men.

Your son may not for-see a bisexual life style now, however, someday he may want to approach it again. My emotional connection is with a women. My connections with men were physical, something my wife could not provide.

As I participate in this group, I see a lot of men's bisexuality coming out as they get older. The bottom line is physical urges do not go away.

And again, this is good for your son. You are being a good father and thank you for sharing this. Some may think it is an inappropriate situation, however, my life experiences say otherwise. And I have always believed in being a good person; does having gay experiences make me a bad person ?
 
Very interesting topic, somewhat this is close to me,
I’m in a relationship with a bisexual guy.
he being in the Military is very DL, we started with the physical connection, he alway make sure the I’m aware he have the emotional connection with woman, just like luvrcutdick, but since his relationship with x wife, and girlfriends started deteriorating, I notice he got closer to me, wen he have troubles with his “woman” he sicks sone sore of refuge with me, and dealing with his emotions through sex with me, and very much bottoming must of the time, but wen he was ok with the “lady” I dint heir from him for months, and it would happened again, and again, so I started to identify the pattern, as the time passed and I stated to show lest interest, I let hem know I wasn’t willing to continue with the game, I felt use, and I didn’t really felt like our relationship /friendship wasn’t going anywhere, he stated to show come to me more often.. honestly I was very happy to see him more and more.
I really like him, he is very handsome hung, young, beautiful body, ass, cock and.... ! well you get the point.
Then things change..! now we are very much emotionally connected, he still have a girlfriend, but is just to avoid harassment or discrimination while he is in the Navy, our sexual encounters now are very intense, and mutually satisfying. he seems now very much into me, as I’m into him.. no pon intended.
 
Very interesting BulgeGuySD .......... perhaps perseverance paid off for both of you.

I often think that we have generally been conditioned to think a m/m relationship is morally wrong. So we settle for a physical connection and leave it at that. I was born in 1954 and so being bi or gay was not acceptable.

Unfortunately, due to a terminal illness, I lost my relationship with my wife of 42 years. Emotionally I am not yet ready for any serious emotional connection, yet.

I have often wondered if I could have a partner relationship with a man. I think my family would be both surprised and unsure. For me, it is not necessarily about my partner's gender, but my ability to trust someone as deeply as I did my wife.

Any relationship that I enter into will be "under the microscope". My wife was the "gold standard" of partners, gender aside. If I partner with a male, and should it go wrong, I will probably get a lot of "blowback".

Go with your instincts. I have a gay couple who are really good friends of mine. I admire their relationship and hope you find the same as well.

As for myself, time will tell.
 
I had gay relationships prior to meeting my wife. I think if something happened to her I could easily go back to that lifestyle. My family knows my background. For me it would be more about the person, not the sex of the person.

My son is a horny young man. Rather than go without sex he and his roommate doing this. I am doubtful he will stick with the gay sex or return to it onc it is safe to go out and meet women and get back to hetero sex. He has been attracted to females since he was very young. Even before puberty he would turn his head to watch a beautiful female who walked by.
 
No one should embarrassed of who they love or have sex with. No judgement nor argument from me.

It’s hot to hear about your knowing about your son’s sexual experiences. Sexual fluidity is just hot. I am finally embarrassing I am fluid and open to sexual exploration with women again
 

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