new tides

so i have recently slowed down with the new girl,
she was kinda getting crazy lol.

i think BDSM is like cocaine to a lot of these girls.
i mean they get bezerk and not in a cool way.

they want me to fight them like a fist fight style fight...as though clamps rope and the whip is not harsh enough or something.

i asked her to leave she said she understood,
i talked to her later and she told me she was embarrassed for acting batshit and i told her we could play again with deeper limits.

she did enjoy my play style but i think had a different idea of "dominance" than i do.
i call the style she wants me to use
"duminant" and it seems to be the idea of what
bdsm is.

NOT me man. haha.
i will make you operate...that is my most evil weapon of construction.:firedevil:

so i hope it goes better.

i want to learn whatever this insane reaction is.
i have read a lot about catharsis and abreaction
but this is not cool...frankly it is kinda gross
and they think it is hot.

i do not enjoy faceslapping, but i do enjoy providing a release for anyone.

that is my cocaine.

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Sounds like a fucked up case of sub frenzy.

You did the right thing in asking her to leave so she could gain a measure of self control.

It takes strength to demand more from a person and the people around you.
Certainly more strength than physically beating them.

Requiring a sub to mentally dominate their will and modify their behavior on command is an aspect of D&s that is all too often neglected.

Hats off to you, Psidom.
 
*blinks*

I would punch a guy in the nads that even attempted to slap me in the face. I don't understand the attraction to such a move. Ok, so maybe I wouldn't really punch him, but I'd at least tell him off in the general way scum should be told off.

I guess everyone has their own set of limits.

A friend sent this to me when I first started learning about the lifestyle. It made for interesting reading at the time.

Submissive Frenzies are a state or condition that many if not all submissives will experience at one time or another
 
Why thank you Ms. Dragon *blushie face*

I keep it bookmarked so it was there for quick reference in case anyone wished to share it.
 
Could it also be the ladies are a bit intimidated by BHF? Not only her beauty, but also the deep connection you two share?

If yes, in what ways are you allowing the new partners to feel their worth to you?
 
awesome article laidey, thank you. ; )
also thank you for the reassuring words DF. ; )

as far as them being intimidated by BHF,
it is BHF that they want to be like,
she is clear and honest because of my style not our connection from a 13 year relationship.
they want to be clear without trying and then they want to throw it in our faces, it is sociopathic game.

this i think is what causes the frenzy.

BHF has surfed her emotional universe with my guidance, we are a functioning "self-actualization" and authenticity
factory.

we both are giving our every glint of star to assist the journey to self actualization.
our egos are at bay whilst our hearts reaching into the dark for these women's souls and "care"

BHF and I both want them equally...and almost turn more business with each other when in intense relationship dynamics with others that are trying to get away from "existing" and spun into living...we understand how this works,
but the "frenzy" thing is new to me. lol.

tricky tricky...i think i am getting some of it more readily though.
again awesome article....explains a lot.
 
the partners feel their worth to me because i am honest and non evasive with them, also give them nights of etheric cuddles not just laying and watching a movie, but exchanging energy and body buzz combined with me showing them many many things i could hide, and hold above their heads....but do not, instead i lovingly and supportively walk with them, plus BHF is there to give her frame of thought on it all.

it is actually very very hot. lol.
i think they just get overwhelmed by that much love/sex/life.
we are occultists. : )
 

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