A couple of years ago, a gay character in an English soap opera discovered that the guy he had been dating (another character in the soap) had been seeing a woman. When challenged, the guy he was dating said he hadn't regarded his relationship with the gay guy as serious and that he was bi-sexual. The gay guy replied, "There's no such thing as bi-sexual, it's just greed".
Most gay guys believe that their gayness is caused by genetics and there is some scientific evidence to suggest this to be true. Additionally many guys who have been subjected to homophobic attacks will say that if they had had a choice in the matter they wouldn't have chosen to be gay. Their life would have been far simpler if they were straight.
Gay cruising areas are frequented by lots of guys who say they are straight or bi. Some who make the claims also say that they are probably gay but have chosen to conform to family and society norms by living a "straight" life, with a wife and kids. Others say they are basically straight but that they get a sexual fulfilment from being with other guys that they can't get from being with a woman. Blow jobs are a particular favourite (guys do them better), while other want to be fucked by a guy but don't want to do anything in return. Other guys say that when they are with a woman, the pressure is on them to please the woman but when they are wth a guy the emphasis is on pleasing each other.
If the theories are true and that intrinsically we are either straight or gay then bi-sexuality is, greed? or perhaps more kindly a sexual drive that means individuals can enjoy sex with either men or women. What they are seeking is sexual fulfillment to deal with the very strong need they have to have sexual release/relief.
I wonder what other members think, and how they would then descibe themselves if the opportunity to identify percentages of gayness and straightness weren't available to them.
I'm still 100% gay, though I have lots of women friends.
Most gay guys believe that their gayness is caused by genetics and there is some scientific evidence to suggest this to be true. Additionally many guys who have been subjected to homophobic attacks will say that if they had had a choice in the matter they wouldn't have chosen to be gay. Their life would have been far simpler if they were straight.
Gay cruising areas are frequented by lots of guys who say they are straight or bi. Some who make the claims also say that they are probably gay but have chosen to conform to family and society norms by living a "straight" life, with a wife and kids. Others say they are basically straight but that they get a sexual fulfilment from being with other guys that they can't get from being with a woman. Blow jobs are a particular favourite (guys do them better), while other want to be fucked by a guy but don't want to do anything in return. Other guys say that when they are with a woman, the pressure is on them to please the woman but when they are wth a guy the emphasis is on pleasing each other.
If the theories are true and that intrinsically we are either straight or gay then bi-sexuality is, greed? or perhaps more kindly a sexual drive that means individuals can enjoy sex with either men or women. What they are seeking is sexual fulfillment to deal with the very strong need they have to have sexual release/relief.
I wonder what other members think, and how they would then descibe themselves if the opportunity to identify percentages of gayness and straightness weren't available to them.
I'm still 100% gay, though I have lots of women friends.