My first blog post...here goes:
There once was this girl...:wink:
We were together for two years, they were amazing, she was brilliant, funny, warmhearted and amazing in bed. She was the first woman
that made me think about marriage and kids, but things did not work out and our breakup unfortunately was not very amicable, and we stayed out of contact for almost a decade.
Like they say, "everyone is on myspace". And lo and behold I found out so was she, looking at her pictures she hasn't aged a day. After much debate I sent her a message saying hello, and asked her how she has been, she replied within hours.
I found out she is a nurse and is married now, and I felt good for her that she was happy. We exchanged pleasantries, her great sense of humor still there...but the last email I received surprised me.
"Why did things go the way they did? I always loved you, I always have..even now."
My stomache dropped, and I feel like I have opened Pandora's box. Granted, I would not be in this situation if I had not sent her that message, but I would not dream of interrupting a marriage ( not to mention she lives across the country).
My question is, what do I do now? She sent the message around Xmas, so I had the holiday rush to stall, but I don't want to leave her hanging.
I can be such a boner sometimes.:frown1:
There once was this girl...:wink:
We were together for two years, they were amazing, she was brilliant, funny, warmhearted and amazing in bed. She was the first woman
that made me think about marriage and kids, but things did not work out and our breakup unfortunately was not very amicable, and we stayed out of contact for almost a decade.
Like they say, "everyone is on myspace". And lo and behold I found out so was she, looking at her pictures she hasn't aged a day. After much debate I sent her a message saying hello, and asked her how she has been, she replied within hours.
I found out she is a nurse and is married now, and I felt good for her that she was happy. We exchanged pleasantries, her great sense of humor still there...but the last email I received surprised me.
"Why did things go the way they did? I always loved you, I always have..even now."
My stomache dropped, and I feel like I have opened Pandora's box. Granted, I would not be in this situation if I had not sent her that message, but I would not dream of interrupting a marriage ( not to mention she lives across the country).
My question is, what do I do now? She sent the message around Xmas, so I had the holiday rush to stall, but I don't want to leave her hanging.
I can be such a boner sometimes.:frown1:
