Oh My! Relationship?!

So...I talked to a friend at the end of the summer, and her and her bf went through things, as well as her and her best friend who i am friends with as well (or was friends with after I found out what happened). Long story short, I was that one person who I feel like actually asked her if she was ok and have been trying to be there for her.

The thing is...I think we are growing attracted to one another...which I'm unsure about. The reason is that we get along well when talking and joking around, having fun, etc. The problem is that there are some things that she does that are kind of on the extreme of what I DISLIKE in a mate, which is weird. It's like taking a scale and having 100 good things on one side, but then 2-3 on the other side that is weighing down the whole scale in favor of the 2-3 side.

I don't know what to do, but I hope it works out...

This was my first real kind of relationship post. Hope it was enlightening. :biggrin1:

-sleepiboi

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I think you need to tell us much more specifically what the probelem seems to be.

Don't forget that much as we may bond in freiendship and love with another we still remain individuals with bits that we do not easily share with others, including our closest friends and lovers.
 
If you do get closer, don't make too much of it. Let her know right up front that you have issues with some behaviors of hers that will keep you from doing anything more permanent than just being 'buddies'. Even if it's fuck-buddies. You know she's not Ms Right, so just enjoy what you two do have.
 
Well we have been friends since HS, but the difference is that I am healthy with no drinking and no smoking. She goes to a different college then me, but in the same area, but she smokes and drinks which for me is kinda ugh...lol
 
Then it's GOOD she's just a friend. Keep being yourself and remember you have quite a lot more life ahead of you to meet someone truly compatible.
 

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