Oral With My Wife Sucks....

no pun intended there... but Oral sex with my wifey is nothing like I've experienced and would like it to be.

She'll do it- if i ask and beg. I can expect the "i'm not so in the mood now." or "do you really need it" and then I get a few decent sucks on my balls a wary lick or two on my crown and she's to tired to continue.

As far as eating her out, she isn't into that either. Although when I do coax her into it, she sort of gets into it, she'll begin grinding a little and put her hands on the back of my head sometimes (totally luv that). But it's just not hot enough.


She is an unbelievable woman. I love her with all my heart and no one could do for me what she does... but she is just too damn straight in bed.

Any suggestions from my LPSG friends?
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Let me guess, she commented that "only porn actors do that" .... or "You saw that in your porn movies you watch all the time"

'it happens to the best of us.
 
I see what you mean. Has her libido always been low?

Ever tried smothering your cock in her favorite food?(hopefully it's whipped cream or chocolate and not like... spaghetti)

The next time you go to eat her out--don't. I mean, do, but not at first. Really draw it out. Lick and nibble and kiss on her legs and touch everywhere but her pussy. Make her start to squirm a bit before you even head back up and then just breathe on her pussy again, without touching. Perhaps she needs more coaxing, more teasing, more time to relax into it.

I would so love to be one of those sex therapists that sleep with their clients. *adjusts her glasses* "Yes, but your sperm isn't sentient and it's alright if I swallow it. Now fuck me, you fool."

Best wishes. And then bring her over! :firedevil:
 
I know this might sound obvious but do you know what your sperm tastes like? I've met a good few guys who taste really bad. I'm not trying to accuse anyone i'm just curious.
 
Was she that way 'before' you were together ? As the old saying goes 'once that ring is on her finger the blow jobs are OUT the window' ..
 
Hotlatbtm said:
'once that ring is on her finger the blow jobs are OUT the window' ..

Hah, I never got a ring and I still love giving blow jobs!!!
Wait... a second.... I've been bamboozled!

(I turned down the ring actually, told him to invest that money for the baby when I got pregnant.)
 
I know a lot of single women and men with wives and unfortunately for you oral sex is not something that most women suddenly acquire a taste for if they are not initially into it(especially spiritial religious types). The word I hear from those that are not into it are "filthy" and "demeaning." And the fact that she is not into being serviced below makes me think if its worth it maybe you two should see a sex therapist. I say that because although you love her....by you even posting your frustration its either one of 3 things that will happen since she isnt into it, and you are. I worked in the porn industry and used to teach technique to the girls of Devils Films and Vivid. What I found with them is that when they mastered oral sex, they used it as a tool...like control watching how they could pleasure a guy, like giving them power. Many gay guys who crave sucking dick know nothing about actual skill in doing it. So if a woman feels that she is not good at doing it and is not getting the results(from you) when doing it, loss of confidence is a big turn off. Of course if she is bad at it(like a snapper lawnmower with teeth) or doesnt know how to use the tip of her tongue up and down the shaft to stimulate sensations, lip and tongue suction, and relaxation techniques for deep throating, while softly hand stroking and inevitablely mixing all the techniques together.....well maybe you should buy a fleshlight jack. (Not a joke as guys like that sensation too.)
 
Assuming there is no problems cuming outside her mouth, or her spitting. She may not know what you like or expect. Watching is one thing, but pressure, and how to tantalize is another. If you communicate what feels good as she does it, and tell her what will work better. She is bound to perform better as well. You don't need to have your dick down her throat to get good head, as it is mostly for looks.
 
wow. thanks for the response folks. Actually I have thought about bringing her with me to a sex therapist.

As far tasting- luvingit... thanks for the advice but we are soooooo far from her swallowing that its not even on the radar. Thats actually fine by me. I dont care if she swallows at this point.

I'll take cylus's suggestion on teasing a bit more. I found that she doesnt like it on her back, but gets more into it (a little) when I do it earmuff style. like on her side. Anyone know why that would be?

Also, this is kind of my fetish but i dont care how hard she bites my shaft. I love it. like if it feels like my dick is caught ina paper shredder im ready to blow my load in ten seconds. I also go for rough play on my balls which she hasnt really mastered. like if shes biting my balls.... she is just really biting HARD. Its ok for a minute or two but then i feel like im being assaulted.

anyways i guess we'll see how it goes. thanks folks
 
After reading some of the comments, I'm inclined to agree with hungversjock's opening statement. Some women have grown up in an almost puritanical home where even the thought of pleasuring yourself is unclean or debasing. Just imagine if you had grown up in a household where you were chastised out loud or even spanked for playing with your genitals! Parents can permanently damage a child's self esteem and their body image!
If however, she is successful in all other areas of her life then the problem lies elsewhere; perhaps, she has been approached by another woman; and she enjoys the touch of another female! OR she was sexually molested at an early age or puberty by another sibling or male? I hope you don't mind any of these comments.
 
I am sooo thankful for wives like Yours..I LOVE getting on my faggot knees and taking Your Hot Cocks deep down my throat..Feeling them getting bigger, throbbing and then shooting Your big hot juicy loads..Ummm..Then Your back off to the wife or girlfriend..If Your within 40 miles of Waynesboro VA hit me up here or email obidient4u@yahool.com
 

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