out in the open

So, both my mother and my brother are aware that I'm in a threesome relationship.

*shrugs* I was expecting a bit more disproval from mom. Turns out the apple doesn't fall all that far from the tree.

Yeah, I know there are those of you out there who think that being quite as open and honest about things with a parent (espescially after leaving home) is icky. To you I say "tough tidbits". This is how I choose to interact with my family, with a minimum of secrets.

I don't like secrets, I've lived with too many of them in my life. Whether I keep the secrets or spread them, it's pain either way.

Keeping secrets, keeping silent, leaves me far too open to the things friends and family say to try to be helpful even without all the information. It hurts. a lot. To not be able to say why you want to stay in a situation or why you put up with certain behavior, or why people aren't just using you..... it hurts.

*shrugs* that's part of why I don't like secrets.

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I always think that honesty is the best policy, even regarding love and/or the sex life. I think being open with the family is great, you just have to know when to spare them the details. A lot of times parents are a great source of support and information, even when we expect they might not be (as in your case).

:)
 
Secrets only come back and haunt you. Good for you and in being honest. If people dont like it. Than thats their problem, not yours.
 
Thanks for the read and the comments guys!

-grtnee: I do try to hold back the espescially salacious details, but in my family we have a policy; "Don't ask the question if you aren't prepared for an answer." *grins* I think I'm given my poor mother quite a few near-heart attacks, not because of the raunchy stuff I sometimes get up to, but because I tend to only tell her about the scary/hard times in my life AFTER I've already dealt with them.

-JasonDawgxxx: *laughs* That's what I'm sayin' man!
 

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