So, both my mother and my brother are aware that I'm in a threesome relationship.
*shrugs* I was expecting a bit more disproval from mom. Turns out the apple doesn't fall all that far from the tree.
Yeah, I know there are those of you out there who think that being quite as open and honest about things with a parent (espescially after leaving home) is icky. To you I say "tough tidbits". This is how I choose to interact with my family, with a minimum of secrets.
I don't like secrets, I've lived with too many of them in my life. Whether I keep the secrets or spread them, it's pain either way.
Keeping secrets, keeping silent, leaves me far too open to the things friends and family say to try to be helpful even without all the information. It hurts. a lot. To not be able to say why you want to stay in a situation or why you put up with certain behavior, or why people aren't just using you..... it hurts.
*shrugs* that's part of why I don't like secrets.
*shrugs* I was expecting a bit more disproval from mom. Turns out the apple doesn't fall all that far from the tree.
Yeah, I know there are those of you out there who think that being quite as open and honest about things with a parent (espescially after leaving home) is icky. To you I say "tough tidbits". This is how I choose to interact with my family, with a minimum of secrets.
I don't like secrets, I've lived with too many of them in my life. Whether I keep the secrets or spread them, it's pain either way.
Keeping secrets, keeping silent, leaves me far too open to the things friends and family say to try to be helpful even without all the information. It hurts. a lot. To not be able to say why you want to stay in a situation or why you put up with certain behavior, or why people aren't just using you..... it hurts.
*shrugs* that's part of why I don't like secrets.