Question 1 What feels better, Sex or Masturbation?

A fellow LPSG member sent me a PM telling me he is a fan of my blog posts. He had seen a questionnaire about sexual interests and was curious how I would answer them. There are 75 questions so it is not a quick thing to answer. I told him I would turn it into blog posts. I am going to do one at a time so any of you who are interested can respond with your answers.

Answer...
I am a huge fan of masturbation, but have to say sharing an experience with someone is better for me. Those who have read my blog posts and stories in the forums know I am bisexual.

I have a beautiful wife and thankfully she loves sex. We typically make love/fuck about 4 times a week. After three kids and many years of marriage, I am grateful for it. I say make love/fuck because sometimes she likes it slow, gentle, and romantic and other times she begs me to fuck her hard. I aim to please and enjoy the variety. She enjoys oral too so I typically get sucked each time we have sex.

I also have a fuck buddy, Jay. When my wife and I were getting serious I told her I could not promise I could give up M2M sex. She knew I was bi because we met when I was still in a live-in relationship with a man. She told me to do what I needed to do, but she never wanted to see or hear it, and to do whatever I did using caution and safety. My buddy is also my best friend. You can read about many of our fuck sessions in my story called Best Friend Becomes Massage/JO Buddy. In my past I had sex with more men than I can count, but Jay and I click on all levels. My cock feels electrified when he jacks me, sucks me, or I am riding his ass.

I still love to masturbate, but sex with my wife or Jay will win me over time after time.

How about you?

Comments

I'm going to equate "what feels better?" to "which is more satisfying?". Other elements of the question become bothersome, also. Masturbation presupposes a "private", self indulgent activity. :rolleyes:"Sex" is shared with a partner, and masturbation is not considered sexual(?).

In the spirit of the question asked, I have to declare my sexual satisfaction evolves. My physical condition at age 70 precludes more satisfaction from masturbation than the efforts necessary for intercourse. My selfishness creates guilty feelings towards not considering my wife's potential needs.
 
Most of the time people are not very gifted or intuitive when it comes to sex. I will always know how to make myself moan. Still there is nothing quite like having a nice warm muscled body against me.
 
Well I think sex with someone else is much better than the Rosie Palm rendezvous.
Of course it is much different so it is useless to compare them each other.
When I making love with someone it is about souls and passions. It is a session of love.
When I masturbate I'm just seeking the orgasm - thats all.
 

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