I get this question almost every day in the DMs.
I am going to try to explain my guy doesn’t know about me being on this site and he definitely doesn’t want me showing or camming with guys. He feels my dick and everything else belongs to him and it’s only for him to see. He is pretty possessive. He doesn’t like the idea of anyone else getting to see me or my dick.
Please understand that there is not a place in this house where I can go to talk without a word of what I am saying not being heard. It’s out of character for me to just drive off and find a spot in a pandemic just so you can get a private free show. I don’t owe that to anyone. Except the guys that I want to. The guys that I share with and the guys that get to see are chill dudes that really get to know me. Many of these men are like me and I can relate to them on many levels. Many of these men are mature and share parts of themselves with me as well.
I sometimes will get the follow up question, “Well if he doesn’t like it, then why are you here? Why do you do it? And why do you show your dick, especially if you know it would hurt him?”
This question is complicated, and at the end of the day I don’t owe anyone an explanation. I owe myself an explanation and a deep understanding of why I do what I do. As you get to dive into my life with this blog and future posts, you may get to understand.
I do try however to explain. With some personalities it really makes them angry but that is their issue. I can’t own their behavior or their anger.
My usual response is this is a great site and I enjoy the forums and looking at the dudes on here. I also love being able to show off. It’s also amazing to have likes and comments or be fantasied about. To be seen and understood as a sexual force. To be seen as a GAY MAN. It feels empowering. Sometimes I also share that I get to converse with many awesome people on here. It’s great to make digital friends.
Some of the responses tell me much more about the person on the other end of the conversation. It’s usually positive feedback. If it gets bad, I am not going to try to fix their issues they have with me. For everyone else that enjoys, I know it was appreciated that I share.
Some other things to realize about chat, voice, telephone calls and requests of this nature before you ask a dude in dms or demand he show in a personal show or reveal who he is to you... All for you...
If you don’t know the guy, you should be respectful in how you request or speak to him. You don’t know what kind of a situation he is in, what he may be going through, his life experiences, and you could have unrealistic expectations towards him giving you what you are looking for.
I don’t have to prove to anyone that my dick is real or it belongs to me. I don’t even have to prove it is bigger than average. I don’t even have to be completely hard in comparison pictures if I don’t want to be. I know my own dick, I am confident in my dick and I own it. I don’t have to prove anything to anyone and most likely won’t if you try to push for more or are rude. Luckily most of the guys on this site are amazing.
LPSG is cool, the process for verification works. If you have questions about it being real, take a look to see if they are verified, look at their pictures to match up the dick. Does it look real to you?
You can get so many random requests for immediate attention, information requests, and chat/show requests from profiles with no pictures or vague details that can be really demanding. These don’t match my personality type. If you get silence, you will probably have to up your game to get what you want.
I will get to explain more of the anti share and anti video wank offs situation with other guys in future blog posts, because I had done this years ago and it really made for some issues in my relationship.
As for my man’s feelings about me showing on video chat, talking to other guys and also about having an Only Fans account.
Our last conversation was a few nights ago about what I want in a next job. Not to be crazy stressed. To have some satisfaction in the work I do. To be able to enjoy my free time. To have a supportive team around me. To have good management or be my own boss. I rattled off a few other things and he told me that nobody gets that. I said then let’s monetize my monster. He knew exactly what I was talking about and I saw the flash of anger. He knew I was talking about showing it off on only fans. He got upset and told me he would be very angry and very upset if I did such a thing and turned away. It’s probably the fifth time I have brought it up and it is pretty obvious he is not going to change his mind or his views on this.
I am going to try to explain my guy doesn’t know about me being on this site and he definitely doesn’t want me showing or camming with guys. He feels my dick and everything else belongs to him and it’s only for him to see. He is pretty possessive. He doesn’t like the idea of anyone else getting to see me or my dick.
Please understand that there is not a place in this house where I can go to talk without a word of what I am saying not being heard. It’s out of character for me to just drive off and find a spot in a pandemic just so you can get a private free show. I don’t owe that to anyone. Except the guys that I want to. The guys that I share with and the guys that get to see are chill dudes that really get to know me. Many of these men are like me and I can relate to them on many levels. Many of these men are mature and share parts of themselves with me as well.
I sometimes will get the follow up question, “Well if he doesn’t like it, then why are you here? Why do you do it? And why do you show your dick, especially if you know it would hurt him?”
This question is complicated, and at the end of the day I don’t owe anyone an explanation. I owe myself an explanation and a deep understanding of why I do what I do. As you get to dive into my life with this blog and future posts, you may get to understand.
I do try however to explain. With some personalities it really makes them angry but that is their issue. I can’t own their behavior or their anger.
My usual response is this is a great site and I enjoy the forums and looking at the dudes on here. I also love being able to show off. It’s also amazing to have likes and comments or be fantasied about. To be seen and understood as a sexual force. To be seen as a GAY MAN. It feels empowering. Sometimes I also share that I get to converse with many awesome people on here. It’s great to make digital friends.
Some of the responses tell me much more about the person on the other end of the conversation. It’s usually positive feedback. If it gets bad, I am not going to try to fix their issues they have with me. For everyone else that enjoys, I know it was appreciated that I share.
Some other things to realize about chat, voice, telephone calls and requests of this nature before you ask a dude in dms or demand he show in a personal show or reveal who he is to you... All for you...
If you don’t know the guy, you should be respectful in how you request or speak to him. You don’t know what kind of a situation he is in, what he may be going through, his life experiences, and you could have unrealistic expectations towards him giving you what you are looking for.
I don’t have to prove to anyone that my dick is real or it belongs to me. I don’t even have to prove it is bigger than average. I don’t even have to be completely hard in comparison pictures if I don’t want to be. I know my own dick, I am confident in my dick and I own it. I don’t have to prove anything to anyone and most likely won’t if you try to push for more or are rude. Luckily most of the guys on this site are amazing.
LPSG is cool, the process for verification works. If you have questions about it being real, take a look to see if they are verified, look at their pictures to match up the dick. Does it look real to you?
You can get so many random requests for immediate attention, information requests, and chat/show requests from profiles with no pictures or vague details that can be really demanding. These don’t match my personality type. If you get silence, you will probably have to up your game to get what you want.
I will get to explain more of the anti share and anti video wank offs situation with other guys in future blog posts, because I had done this years ago and it really made for some issues in my relationship.
As for my man’s feelings about me showing on video chat, talking to other guys and also about having an Only Fans account.
Our last conversation was a few nights ago about what I want in a next job. Not to be crazy stressed. To have some satisfaction in the work I do. To be able to enjoy my free time. To have a supportive team around me. To have good management or be my own boss. I rattled off a few other things and he told me that nobody gets that. I said then let’s monetize my monster. He knew exactly what I was talking about and I saw the flash of anger. He knew I was talking about showing it off on only fans. He got upset and told me he would be very angry and very upset if I did such a thing and turned away. It’s probably the fifth time I have brought it up and it is pretty obvious he is not going to change his mind or his views on this.