I'm starting to have a disdain for Latin American men now... It's like I understand they are in a financial situation, okay, I get it, but please, please don't try to manipulate me by pretending to be interested in me then use the typical sad story to play on my heartstring.
I hate being Puerto Rican-American because from what I have noticed by me being Puerto Rican or Puerto Rican descent is a gateway for them. It's like "Oh, he's Puerto Rican descent, so let me use that Somos latinos tactic and by him being American, he's stupid, it's a double whammy." Bad news for you, I'm not an idiot, I know the game extremely well.
What sucks for me though, I am attracted to Latinos. I really want to date and have a relationship with a Latino whether he's US-born or from Latin America, but the issue is, US-born Latinos are obsessed with white guys (btw I am a Latino of African descent, 9 out of 10 I get asked if I am Dominican or Russel Wilson's brother for some reason). I know what you're saying to yourself but aren't there US-born Latinos attracted to black men? The answer is yes, but I'm not exactly black enough for them. I look too Latino from a Spanish Caribean standpoint and "act too white" (I hate that saying because technically I am half white i.e. Spanish, so how am I acting white?) or they assume that I am from the Dominican Republic/Puerto Rico for the simple reason that I am too relaxed. I know! It's so fucking stupid. They want that rough around the edges thug-type from Mott Haven who gonna burst through their door and rape the shit outta their bussy til it's filled with cum.
Now, Latin American men, who I thought I connected well with was all a scam. I get along with Latin American men up until they start hinting they want some money from me. That shit pisses me off because the way they do it is extremely fuckboy/douchbag type. Like they would come up to talk to me. Act flirtatious, give me complaints and are a gentleman but when I start letting them know that I am interested in them and we have a decent conversation. BOOM! They start giving me "My mom is sick" or "I don't have food" or "I need help with my college payment." blah, blah, blah, it's like a 180-degree turn. Mind you I am only 27 years old so I don't have that type of money plus I'm not gonna give you shit. Um, I have my own bills to worry about. You do honestly think that I am dumb to fall for your bullshit? GTFOH. I understand the struggle but wow how dare you tried to manipulate me, but thank you for thinking that I am rich. I carry myself fairly well.
With the whole situation between Abel Pirela and his husband, I have come to the conclusion that Latinos are a no-go. Nice to look at, sometime, it depends, but that's it. I know, I know, I am Latino myself and not all Latinos are users, but it's 1 out of 10.
I am so mad at myself that I thought I was going to find this romantic, sweet, handsome Latino husband of mine. Take trips to Puerto Rico and where he's from (or if he's from Puerto Rico too, hallelujah) for romantic getaways. Once in awhile get into heated arguments just to have an excuse to make love at night till the sunrise, I like a little bit of drama. And when we save enough money we purchase a beautiful Spanish colonial house in Santa Barbara or Puerto Rico, I haven't decided yet. Just live a happy life together with some dramas in between
I hate being Puerto Rican-American because from what I have noticed by me being Puerto Rican or Puerto Rican descent is a gateway for them. It's like "Oh, he's Puerto Rican descent, so let me use that Somos latinos tactic and by him being American, he's stupid, it's a double whammy." Bad news for you, I'm not an idiot, I know the game extremely well.
What sucks for me though, I am attracted to Latinos. I really want to date and have a relationship with a Latino whether he's US-born or from Latin America, but the issue is, US-born Latinos are obsessed with white guys (btw I am a Latino of African descent, 9 out of 10 I get asked if I am Dominican or Russel Wilson's brother for some reason). I know what you're saying to yourself but aren't there US-born Latinos attracted to black men? The answer is yes, but I'm not exactly black enough for them. I look too Latino from a Spanish Caribean standpoint and "act too white" (I hate that saying because technically I am half white i.e. Spanish, so how am I acting white?) or they assume that I am from the Dominican Republic/Puerto Rico for the simple reason that I am too relaxed. I know! It's so fucking stupid. They want that rough around the edges thug-type from Mott Haven who gonna burst through their door and rape the shit outta their bussy til it's filled with cum.
Now, Latin American men, who I thought I connected well with was all a scam. I get along with Latin American men up until they start hinting they want some money from me. That shit pisses me off because the way they do it is extremely fuckboy/douchbag type. Like they would come up to talk to me. Act flirtatious, give me complaints and are a gentleman but when I start letting them know that I am interested in them and we have a decent conversation. BOOM! They start giving me "My mom is sick" or "I don't have food" or "I need help with my college payment." blah, blah, blah, it's like a 180-degree turn. Mind you I am only 27 years old so I don't have that type of money plus I'm not gonna give you shit. Um, I have my own bills to worry about. You do honestly think that I am dumb to fall for your bullshit? GTFOH. I understand the struggle but wow how dare you tried to manipulate me, but thank you for thinking that I am rich. I carry myself fairly well.
With the whole situation between Abel Pirela and his husband, I have come to the conclusion that Latinos are a no-go. Nice to look at, sometime, it depends, but that's it. I know, I know, I am Latino myself and not all Latinos are users, but it's 1 out of 10.
I am so mad at myself that I thought I was going to find this romantic, sweet, handsome Latino husband of mine. Take trips to Puerto Rico and where he's from (or if he's from Puerto Rico too, hallelujah) for romantic getaways. Once in awhile get into heated arguments just to have an excuse to make love at night till the sunrise, I like a little bit of drama. And when we save enough money we purchase a beautiful Spanish colonial house in Santa Barbara or Puerto Rico, I haven't decided yet. Just live a happy life together with some dramas in between