Reactions of others at a sex party...a long time ago

This is a post I made to thread about the reactions of others to seeing a big cock. The question was do others react and how.

Every time.. The most memorable are often where her own "monster horse cocked" husband or boyfriend or lover is standing there and she...usually both of them...say something.

This experience happened a good time ago...back when I was an active member of AFF...Adult Friend Finder.

Long story short...two women, friends, who were both having sex with the same hugely endowed guy who was on AFF, decided they wanted to have a sex party with anyone else who was huge in the area (Florida). They were from Orlando, Florida....so they found and contacted four other guys who were all on AFF in Florida (I was the only one who was single...who was not in a couple or married relationship), and worked out the details for a sex party over a long weekend in Orlando.

A guy and his wife who were from NJ but also had a home on the south Gold Coast near Fort Lauderdale, they drove over. A guy and his two "wives" from over in the St Pete area and another guy and his wife from the Florida panhandle area, and myself.

The woman in the couple from the panhandle area, she was a sort of thicker but not fat MILF...easily the biggest boobs of any of the six women there, 38H's at least.

Skipping past the meeting and dinner out, and then later adjourning to the rooms in the hotel at the end of the same floor hallway...when everyone got nude and all five of us men got erect...said the line that the other women all agreed was true.

The very busty MILF from the panhandle area said, as I recall, something similar to:

"This is incredible....I can't believe the size of all these giant cocks...I always thought my husband had the biggest cock in the world...I can't believe this...incredible".

As it turned out...when the women compared and measured us all, her husband's extremely very, very long cock tied for length with the black guy from the Fort Lauderdale area as the "shortest" of the five of us, and was fifth in girth...but the other five women, except the wife for the guy from Fort Lauderdale, all agreed with her..they all thought their "man' would have the "biggest" at the party and were surprised that it did not happen that way.

The woman from Fort Lauderdale area...she, like every woman there, was very surprised and even shocked that her husband wasn't the biggest there...but she said she knew he wasn't "the biggest in the world" as she stated several times she thought their son had that "title" because he was larger and even more virile than her husband (his father).

Fast forward to some time later...the same group coordinated and another sex party was arranged for another long weekend...same groups plus a few other women guests of the men/couples showed up. The woman in the couple where the husband was gigantic, but she had repeatedly commented on her son...this time their son was with them...turns out he was enormous and just she had said, her son was even larger than her husband/his father. But when we all got erect again and her son was not the biggest either way...he "lost" that comparison too.

That really upset the her that first her husband had lost and how she had "bragged" on her son and how when he was there he also "lost"...she was upset, angry, and dismayed...but that was another experience...the point is that like the poster who started this thread...everyone of those women, they all thought going in that their own "monster cocked" husband/boyfriend was going to be the "biggest" and all were surprised to see others who were similar and even longer or thicker or both.

Over the many years...decades....I have encountered others with very "big" or "huge" or even "giant" endowments...and the women...the wives and girlfriends and lovers...their reactions to seeing and meeting someone who is even larger than their "lover" has always been surprise and shock, just like their "lovers" reactions to finally meeting someone larger than they are.

What I have observed and learned is that while the guys almost always are eventually "fine" with it...and their reactions can be from being very turned on and they admit their cocks get hard/harder, to going totally limp at the sight of bigger than their own next to them...the women...their reactions can be very different.

Some women in these couples reacted by becoming very turned on and almost forget their "lover"...fascination with seeing and wanting to touch and hold larger than they have ever seen before.

And other women have actually become upset...some very upset. From anger to dismay.

I am not a physiologist, but a few women have shared that it is an ego thing for those women...their own "identity" was tied to the idea that they were the wife/girlfriend/lover of the guy with the biggest endowment they or anyone they knew had ever seen or knew of...they were the woman "feminine" enough to attract and have such a man....and that was part of their self identity and "social status" among everyone they knew.

And their finally, totally unexpectedly, seeing someone who is "bigger and better" than their husband/boyfriend/lover...is something they were not mentally prepared for.

I do not know each time what each woman is thinking/feeling...but I do think it depends on each woman and the dynamics of their lives and the relationship within the couple...but I do know what I have seen....so I always try to be "nice" and be "polite" and never assume how others will react next.

And I have encountered in couples some women who, after the surprise and shock, who were delighted...thrilled...that their "horse cocked" husband "lost"...and very much wanted to have some form of sex with "bigger and better".

I am sure each woman had their own motives...but I have noticed that often those women were in "open relationships" where their husband was the one who had sex with many other women. To include the friends, coworkers, neighbors, and even relatives of the wife. The theme was similar to variations of he gets offers/needs more sex/rather than lose him I put up with it. And unexpected opportunity for the women to finally getting "turn about" where he has to know of and sometimes even watch her with larger...was a joy and a thrill for the women to have the opportunity to enjoy a man "bigger and better" than their husband and "turn the tables" on their husband.

Couple dynamics...you just never know how each will react and what is going on in their minds and in the "background" to the couple.

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i may have read all your stories, and you have talk about so many reactions. All of them so hot.
 
Physiology/psychological dilemma galore:confused: - and penis envy! Toss in our desires to possess a "trophy wife". No wonder we all want to possess a larger sized cock. Then again, we don't want to become "too big".
 
I've had some very similar experiences and its always interesting how different people react to this dynamic. I.e. discovering they or their partner, granted abnormally large, is not the largest for the first time in their lives. Not being accustomed to the experience, the reactions are a whole range of emotions, some turned on, some simply shocked, some (although the rarest reaction to see expressed openly) jealous.

It's a much rarer occurrence, to see women disappointed or even envious that their partner has lost a size match, although on rare occasions i have experienced it. My only logical explanation for this is, as a person they perhaps the controlling type, perhaps strive for the position amongst their circle as 'queen bee', as such their man/men must be the alpha of the group, in all ways or at the least be number 1 at something that they can brag to their friends (whether it be wealth, intelligence, status, physical prowess). When this is threatened, they feel their 'position' potentially usurped. Even if this is not directly under threat or that any one else is even thinking this way, its a private war they are waging in their head.
 
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*sigh* BigBen, there are days I wish I was half your length, and maybe a third your girth (it sounds like even half your thickness would be too much for most women).
 
As it turned out...when the women compared and measured us all, her husband's extremely very, very long cock tied for length with the black guy from the Fort Lauderdale area as the "shortest" of the five of us, and was fifth in girth...
So how long was the "extremely very, very long cock"?
 

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