REDEFINING MASTURBATION

I started masturbating shortly before my 11 birthday. I had started puberty very early and I assume my hormones directed my hands to my little dick and nuts. My dad died several years prior to that time and my mom didn't tell me anything about sex or my body, so I was on my own. My technique was rather strange. I basically laid one hand on my penis and the other cupped my testicles. I stretched my legs out in front of me and then pulled my knees up and began to drop my knees to the sides and back up again and repeated that for several minutes. The motion of my legs caused my hands to stimulate my cock and it was soon hard. Back then it still fit well within my hand.

It did not take long for that leg movement to cause me to ejaculate. I was startled. I honestly thought I had broken my dick, but it had certainly felt very good. I fell asleep and the next day I recalled that wonderful feeling. The next night I still was thinking I may have damaged something, but my penis didn't hurt at all and I was able to pee normally so I decided not to worry about it. That night, maybe for the first time in my life, I couldn't wait to go to bed. Almost as soon as I was in bed and the lights were out I pulled my underwear down and repeated the new trick I had learned the previous night.

Those masturbation sessions were the first of many. I have always had a very high sex drive so as I continued into puberty I was doing it both in the morning and the evening. My techniques shifted and changed over the years, but typically my goal was to cum as quickly as I could in case my mom should happen to open my bedroom door.

I had my first sexual experience with another person when I was 18. It didn't take me long to know it was preferable to last longer so I slowed down when jacking off, too. Yet, the goal was still simply to ejaculate because it felt so good.

It was not until I had a couple long term relationships with men and then got married to a wonderful woman that I found myself craving more from masturbation. I love sex with my wife, but my sex drive is higher than hers so I still always jacked off, even on days we have sex. I didn't have any trouble talking to my doctor about masturbation so I mentioned one time that I was interested in making my masturbation sessions more sensual and varied and wondered if he had any thoughts on the topic. I did not expect to get much of an answer, but I knew from our past conversations he was in favor of masturbation so I figured I had nothing to lose.

He told me he had the same revelation a couple years prior and had found a guy who did masturbation coaching and suggested I call him and set up a session with him. I was so excited and called right after i left my appointment. The guy seemed very cool and immediately put me at ease. We agreed on a time the following week.

I showed up at his house and he took me into his studio. He was also a masseur so he had me undress and get on the massage table and proceeded to give me a full body massage. When his hand got even remotely close to my junk, I started to bone up. He did not want me to shoot my load so he knew exactly how to back off and then come close again.

After he completed the massage he took off his t-shirt and gym shorts and we sat in chairs facing each other. He went through a bunch of different strokes and touches by using them on himself and then me repeating on myself. All too quickly the appointment time was up and he asked me to keep practicing the different techniques and then come back the same time the following week.

Already by that next appointment I had slowed down and was really enjoying myself more. At the next appointment we discussed rethinking why I was masturbating. He said to stop thinking of the goal as ejaculating and to start to think about the process more. He encouraged me to feel my penis and my testicles and to differentiate how my fingers felt touching them and how they felt being touched. I thought it sounded strange, but I learned to distinguish the difference and it was like me whole body became an erogenous zone. When I would get close to cumming, he had me redirect my hands to my nipples or perineum and pleasure them for a while.

At the end of the second appointment he asked me to continue practicing everything to try to refrain from ejaculating unless it was during sex with my wife. By the time I arrived for my third appoint I was as horny as I had ever been. We both masturbated and edged for about 50 minutes of the hour long appointment and then he encouraged me to let loose and we both shot our loads simultaneously.

I am so grateful for that experience. I now have sons and shared the tips with them from the start of each of their puberties. I did not demonstrate, but was able to communicate verbally with my older son so he could practice it and by the time his younger brother was ready he actually showed him how to do it. They have both thanked me numerous times for being a cool dad who talked to them openly about sex.

I still masturbate every day whether my wife and I have sex or not. I have also been having a sexual relationship with my best friend and have shared all the techniques with him, too. When we jack off together it is often to get one cum out of the way to last longer when we fuck each other, but sometimes we also just enjoy kicking back and share a mutual masturbation session.

Happy Jacking Guys!
Alex

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