Secret Marriages

I'll make this a short blog, but basically I really wanted to propose to my boyfriend next week, and I had the whole thing planned, but after talking to his sister, I think we as a couple need more time.

I don't want to have a secret wedding. I don't want them to be in the dark. I want them to know, because I don't feel right lying about it.

If I love him as much as I say that I do, then I can be patient enough to wait for him to be out of the closet.

More or less I'm worried that he may never come out to them, and I'm going to be forever unmarried.

Comments

1. How did the meeting with your parents go? Do they know?
2. Who and where are your support systems? Who and where are his?
3. worried "he may never come out to them"... who is "them"?
4. considered maybe an "commitment" announcement first... which can lead to a wedding later?

don't rush it... true love will wait until the time is right. (I waited 5 years.... )
 

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